How female orgasm boosters can help your sex life

by Bonny Hall

22 June 2008

If you find it hard to achieve orgasm and never can reach that sweet spot, we've got some potions and lotions to help increase clitoral sensitivity and help you experience the better female orgasms.

Gone are the days when us girlies had to rely upon the multispeed function of a Rabbit vibrator to get us off, or for your partner to kick it up a gear to get you to the point of no return. If you have ever experienced trouble reaching the 'Big O', then orgasm boosters are one treat for your clit that you'll use again and again.

For some women, relaxing enough to achieve an orgasm is a task in itself, especially if you're playing with a new partner or someone you want to impress, but for others they simply can't get to that higher level no matter how hard they try. And sometimes that's the trouble: when you focus too much on trying to orgasm, it just won't happen.

If you want to truly heighten your female orgasms, or actually have one, you should invest in an orgasm booster oil, gel or cream. Much better than watching a dirty flick or desperately trying to mull a million-and-one kinky scenarios through your head, orgasm boosters will make your orgasms out of this world! 

What do orgasm boosters do?

Orgasm boosters come in the form of either gels, oils or creams that can be applied to your naughty bits and breasts, or anywhere else that gets you horny, for a much more intense and satisfying climax. Although, if you don't like the thought of having creams or oils smeared on your clit, especially if you've got some lube action going on, orgasm boosters also come in the form of supplements you can take and others come as a patch you can wear.

 Some orgasm boosters use natural ingredients to get your clit all tingly and silky, while others use specially designed formulas to prime your clit and make you come as never before. Flower Power Orgasm Booster is very popular - comes in pretty packaging and a nice tin, too!

While we're on the subject, if you're priming your clit for better orgasms through oral sex and worry about how you taste, you could invest in a 60-day supplement to make your vaginal secretions taste much sweeter than normal by using something like the Sweet Release Oral Sex Supplement.

How do orgasm boosters work?

Enjoying a more erotic, heightened orgasm doesn't have to involve rocket science. It simply involves choosing the right orgasm booster for you (more on that later), applying it then enjoying the results.

Until you get used to gauging how much of your orgasm booster cream, gel or oil you need to get you all worked up for an orgasm, apply the booster yourself. You can also apply it to your man's penis, but make sure you wash it off his shaft before intercourse as otherwise it could irritate you.

Simply apply the gel, oil or cream to your clit, nipples or anywhere else to increase their sensitivity to stimulation: with an orgasm booster working its magic, a few strokes of your partner's fingers and you'll have the neighbours blushing. The sensation can last anywhere between five and 30 minutes, depending on how much you apply.

Tracey Cox Supersex Orgasm Gel is our best-selling female orgasm gel.

Patches and supplements work in much the same way, although instead of being applied directly before you want them to enhance your clit stimulation, supplements have to be taken with water at least one to two hours before getting head or engaging in sex, while the patches take anywhere between 10 minutes to 30 minutes to kick-start your clit. While the gels, oils and creams are magnificent for a quick and instant fix, supplements and patches will sometimes provide longer-lasting results.

What are the different types available?

Oh, you're spoilt for choice! If you want a juicy but silky stimulating gel to slather onto your clit, look no further than Durex Play O Orgasm Gel - a very popular gel from the biggest name in sex.

And we love Tracey Cox Supersex Orgasm Enhancer Gel, which helps maximise your sexual satisfaction and provide you with a warm, tingly feeling when massaged into your clit.

If you want something a bit more hands-on, try LoveHoney's very own Buzz Tingler Finger Vibrator, which can be slipped onto your index finger and vibrates its contoured tip at 12,000 times a minute for precise and acute clitoral stimulation.

Apart from the juicy gels and clit-loving creams, you can now get lip balm for your other set of lips. The Flower Power Lip Balm Orgasm Booster is the bees knees when it comes to plumping your lips and titillating your clit. Containing shea butter, peppermint and ginseng, this pot of pure pleasure will heighten the sensitivity of your labia for a romping session of steamy sex or head..

For more tips, keep an eye on our special Tracey Cox section, where sex expert Tracey offers regular tips on getting more from your love life.