le_violon_d'ingres: User Profile

I'm a graduate student, a late bloomer sexually, and a dreamer/realist.

I always end up having sex with men and emotional affairs with women but I really want to have my cake and eat it too.

I love tea (sugar, please!), rainy days, jazz & blues, libraries (sex in the stacks, anyone?), gender, language, gin, the energy of live music, and erotica.

turn-ons: intelligence, compassion, humour and honesty; curvy women; nipple play; romance; bondage & D/s (vanilla so far, but I am interested in exploring that side of my sexuality further)