havingmycake: User Profile
My name is Joanna Cake and I write the blog Having My Cake and Eating It Too.
I prefer to think of myself as a life blogger because Im not having sex ALL the time and I do write about other things - health, parenting and intimacy, to name but a few.
I love toys. I think there is definitely a place for them within any relationship, so long as both partners are happy with the situation. It is important that neither party feels threatened or obsolete by their introduction so, as in all matters, communication is key.
Enjoy!
Reviews
| Date | See the product | Read the review | Rating | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 8 Feb 2011 | Naughty Love Heart Nipple Tassels | Tassel Twirl | ||
| 31 May 2010 | Durex Play Massage 2 in 1 Personal Lubricant 200ml | Multitasking isn't always a good idea | ||
| 1 Feb 2010 | Vibratex Mystic Wand Vibrating Massager | Portable, flexible and powerful | ||
| 14 Oct 2009 | Lovehoney Sqweel Oral Sex Simulator | Cute and Tickly | ||
| 18 Aug 2008 | Toy Joy Private Dancer Beginner's Prostate Massager | Anal fun for him and her | ||
Posts
| Date | Message | Where? |
|---|---|---|
| 31 May 2010 | What undies are you wearing today? When I arrived two days ago, I was wearing a black lace bra and matching thong. I don't seem to have been wearing very much at all since then...... |
Lingerie & Clothing |
| 31 May 2010 | How old are you and is your sex life improving with age? OMG, I feel so OLD reading some of those replies ;P My libido went into overdrive at about 41. I think it's when our hormones start to... |
Sex Tips & Talk |
| 31 May 2010 | When did you last have sex? LOL @ Muz - It's quite wonderful. Just wondering if Im going to survive another three days at this pace tho :) |
Sex Tips & Talk |
| 31 May 2010 | Is it possible to "De-Sensatise" yourself ?? (TMI WARNING) I have found that using my kegel8 regularly helps to keep everything in tiptop condition. Previously, after two days of full-on sex with Ruf, I... |
Sex Tips & Talk |
| 31 May 2010 | When did you last have sex? Im with Ruf for the weekend so four times yesterday and twice already today ;P Lots of multiples. I am soooooo lucky to have found that... |
Sex Tips & Talk |
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