• Newbie butt plug advice !

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    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey, I am fairly new to anal play with just OHs fingers being used until I took the plunge and bought the Lovehoney basics slimline butt plug and reverse beads as they seemed fairly unintimidating . I tried them out and they were super easy to insert and not quite as satisfying as I had hoped . I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on what to get next . I was looking at the Itty bitty butt plug as it seems to have a bit more girth as girth is what I think I am after . I can't afford anything to high end unfortunately.
    Thanks in advance !

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    How did you use the beads?
    The best way to use them is whip them out as you orgasm. :)
    Are you male or female?

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    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi sorry I am female and I did whip the beads out as I orgasmed which was fab ! ;)

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    jackjohn [sign in to see picture]
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    get a few different sizes/ materials.

    get an inflatable plug.

    whether you're starting out or experienced, some days you want and can handle more of a stretch than others. start small each time and stop if it hurts.

    enjoy exploring.

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    chloe [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Haras

    i started with the slimline basic too. its a great place to start, but like you, i wanted something bigger quite soon.

    I moved on to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

    The difference the vibrations make is unbelievable! Its a whole new sensation. It is also a little thicker and less flexible than the beginners one. It gives you a much comfier, fuller feeling

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    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi thanks for the great advice ! I clicked the link and it didn't work Chloe , very curious to see what you recommend ! And I shall definitely be looking at inflatables !

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    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Great , that link worked ! Will give it a go 😀😁

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    rogerthechorister [sign in to see picture]
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    I have just got that one. Experience so far is that it is a bit too large for both G/F and me - but the LH anal lube seems too runny and if it were creamy and less inclined to run off it would be easier to get the plug in to the retaining ring. Open to suggestions...

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    chloe [sign in to see picture]
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    thannk you amanda, wonder why mine didnt work ??

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    rogerthechorister [sign in to see picture]
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    I think the basic lovehoney anal lubricant is too runny and it needs to be thicker to ease getting the butt plug in so that the sphincter clamps on the thinner bit. What are the views of others?

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    scorpiosami [sign in to see picture]
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    I've just bought the bionic T-Bar in small as my first one. As I have fairly intense orgasms I worry about not having a really flared base and it going inside which is why I chose this one.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28501


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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi welcome check out the LH Welcome page - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/inside-lovehoney/665597-welcome-to-the-lovehoney-forum/

    Why not introduce yourself in the Newbie Initation Test http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/introduce-yourself/19119-newbies-initiation-test/

    We are all a lovely bunch of coconuts have fun & enjoy LH x

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    Quiet ones are worse! [sign in to see picture]
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    If it's a bit more girth you're after I would recomend the Doc Johnson classic medium and large, on offer for 2 for £15 at the moment.

    They are well designed sit comfortably once in, have a nice long slow taper so you can go at your own pace, you'd be suprised how much you can handle( the that's way too big, but you try and wow I did it!) feeling.

    I think once you've tried it your curiosity will tempt you to go on to the bigger one just take it slowly and enjoy the feeling, experiment on your own at first if you wish until you're happy for your partner to get involved and use them on him if he'll let you

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