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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    OK ... New to sex toys.... But at 42 I have had my experience of the real thing. Now as officially single, I find that I am getting a desire to explore a bit. With a hysterectomy last year, I have found that I do miss the deep uteral orgasms, but I still get clit,g spot, and recently a virginal jaunt into anal!
    I always go for bigger rather than smaller.
    Anyone up to recommending what my first toy should be? My wishlist has a few things on it already, but I am in 2 minds what to start off with.

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    slinx [sign in to see picture]
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    I am still fairly new to toys myself (and 40) but started out with a bullet...I now have a growing collection of toys but I suppose it all depends what your looking for.

    I cant recommend glass enough as I have love my glass dildo and that combined with something to stimulate the clit has mind blowing results not to mention the recent discovery of my A spot by my partner.

    I think its just a matter of deciding what you enjoy and what appeals to you and going for it...and its all good fun trying things out ;) LH are great so if you buy something and its not for you- you can return it anyway so its a win win situation.

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    Hi naughty mum,
    I too had a hysterectomy last year and it hasn't killed off my sex drive either ! Personally I love dildos and would recommend the Si novelties realistic vibrating dildo ( I have the 7 inches one ) and the lovehoney basics suction cup dildo (its quite chunky )
    I find that because they've got a bit of flexibility they're good for angling towards the g spot . A bullet is also a very handy little toy, I use mine a lot!
    Hope these suggestions have been of help, its really just a matter of trying things till you find what works for you but it's all fun :)

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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Hmm...I did look at the basics suction dildo.... Would add a different dimension to solo play;) and not too expensive. As I had my hystererectomy well after my split from my ex(20) year relationship by 2years, and now a year on from that.... I am a bit rusty ! Lol. I pretty much had 0 sex for 5 years.... So my hysterectomy version of me has only just got a test drive with a new guy! Was flying. Blind to see if all the bits worked lol! I think a bit of level toning still needed.... So I might get a set of balls for exercising those muscles. I need a vibrator/ dildo at least though. I have a sort of African hard but massager... That has been my " friend" but really only hits the g spot... Not a deep toy...which I do miss.

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    My recommendation is expensive, but the lovehoney deluxe wand is the best friend a girl could have. So much power. It's pretty magic :)

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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Hmmm. Still on a budget.... Spent quite a bit to spice up my sexy underwear! When you are a divorcee with 2 teenage kids... Your sexy wardrobe is somewhat depleted. Lol! Might try out some of the dildos on the special offer. One is the basic suction cup one... Still chew ing long the second to get the free vibrator....

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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok! Wanting for my 1st order!:)
    Decided to get the bluebells kegel balls, the lh basic suction dildo and the pleasure me purple dildo..... To which got me the vibrator on offer too for free:)
    I think that will be enough to get me started.... Can't wait for the post on wed!

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    Sounds like a good selection , weds could be a busy day for you :)

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    Hehe yep! Glad I have a day off... I haven' t been so keen to see a postman in ages!
    Is it possible for a 42 year old divorcee to have a second flush in being as horny as a teenager? I have not been so interested in sex/ toys/ fantasies etc in 20+years!
    I am really looking forward to expand my toy collections..;)

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    Haha enjoy your new found lust ;-)

    I find that the internet is a wonderful thing... the more you talk about sex on here the worse you'll get (in a good way) =P

    I'm only 23 so you would think lust would be on my side... but with 2 children... I don't think I'd be nearly as interested in "special playtime" with my OH if I wasnt looking on LH forums all the time =P

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    All I can say is I think my next partner better be up to getting naughty!
    Ladies..... There is hope if you have a hyst! If anything... I am getting a distinct feint of liberation.... Done my bit for king and country... Had 2 kids.... No risk of any more..
    So can concentrate on enjoying it more!

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    Haha with any luck yours are grown up and outta ya hair (for the most part) lol

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    Sort of.... Share them with the ex... They are still in early teens.... So I get plenty of playtime now!

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    Ahh I see, well give it another year they'll never wanna be home... at that age, I was always out... go straight to the friends houses from school, maybe get a phone call at like 10-11 asking what time I wanted picking up >.< My friends parents never got any play time that's for sure lol

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    naughty mum wrote:

    Hehe yep! Glad I have a day off... I haven' t been so keen to see a postman in ages!
    Is it possible for a 42 year old divorcee to have a second flush in being as horny as a teenager? I have not been so interested in sex/ toys/ fantasies etc in 20+years!
    I am really looking forward to expand my toy collections..;)

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    Ooh believe me it is, I am 47 I've got a crush on Peter Capaldi and can't get enough of toys, fantasies and story's, even getting a duvet cover made with pictures on so I can lie on it and think very naughty thoughts hubby calls my Dr who mags Peter porn. Enjoy your toys and fantasies

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    Absolutely agree , I'm 50 been married for over 30 years and still have a high sex drive.
    I sometimes think I put too much pressure on my OH because I can't seem to get enough!
    My hysterectomy seemed to trigger even more interest in sex, toys etc. For you naughty mum , feeling like a horny teenager in my opinion is completely understandable - you're free and single again ! Enjoy it :)

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    Hi naughty mum. So heart warming to hear you getting on and trying have fun. I would like to add something. I have read and talked to some female friends who have had hysterectomy's, they All say they miss the deep orgasm.

    With this in mind and having just looked into buying a wand for my wife's birthday. When reading the reviews some have a pitch and power thing drives right into the tissue to give a deeper orgasm. I know they are expensive but just might be what you are looking for. The reviewer you need to follow is "Fluffbags".She is some what of a "Fairy sex mother" on here. She picks and chooses when to post but does see everything if you are very very lucky and chooses your thread she will be a great source of advice.

    Ps. I wanted to call her the grand matriarch but she can get very cross.

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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol! Will keep eye out for her.
    Got to. BE out now most of tommorow... Hope I have postie that reads delivery instructions and leaves Behind my bin...... Can't wait 24hours for collection at depot!
    Feel like a kid waiting for Xmas day! Lol

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    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol! Will keep eye out for her.
    Got to. BE out now most of tommorow... Hope I have postie that reads delivery instructions and leaves Behind my bin...... Can't wait 24hours for collection at depot!
    Feel like a kid waiting for Xmas day! Lol

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    Haha my postie is a good guy... I accidently left my door on the latch one day (I was home but music up loud) He just put my parcel in the hallway, closed the door properly and then the following day knocked to ask me if I got it okay lol

    Also, if I have my balcony door open he always does my flat as he goes past it "Incase I'm not in on his way back around" cause our block of flats is one of the last on his round and I'm normally out by the time his round comes >.<

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