• DIldo or vibrator for anal play

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    lizac.kurca [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all

    I am new here, and was wondering if someone can help me with a recommendation.

    I am looking for a dildo, or better yet, a vibrator for solo anal play with myself. I've done things before with household items, like a candle, a broom stick, but never a dildo.

    I also tried to use my wife's vibrator with no sucess, it's one of those Doc Johnson realistic ones with cyberskin and it's just not firm enough for me to get it in. So I am looking for something that would work.

    Basically, here's what I had in mind:

    1. it has to be firm, but not like wood or glass, so firm enough to get into me yet flexible to bend when needed inside.

    2. it shouldn't be too big, not looking for a monster, something like 5-6 inches in insertable length and maybe about 1.5 inches in diametar would probably be great.

    3. it has to be safe for safe play, meaning wide base so that it doesn't accidently slip in, and preferably a suction cup.

    4. finally, I'd really like it to be realistic in shape/look, or as close to it as possible.

    Any recommendation and help much appreciated!

    Thanks!

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    snooks [sign in to see picture]
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    if your just starting i'd recommend something similar to this

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13990

    have fun

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Lizac - I have this vibrating plug and it is amazing:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

    This one is a vibrating dildo with suction cup:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16948

    This non-vibrating dildo also looks good and has high reviews:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16827

    I would also suggest having a read through this LH Link - buyers guide to anal toys:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/buyers-guide/

    Hope this helps :) xx

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    lizac.kurca [sign in to see picture]
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    snooks wrote:

    if your just starting i'd recommend something similar to this

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13990

    have fun

    Thanks! I think I'm a bit beyond that. I had some larger objects in my butt before, like a candle and a broom stick.

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    lizac.kurca [sign in to see picture]
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    Scorpius12 wrote:

    Hi Lizac - I have this vibrating plug and it is amazing:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

    This one is a vibrating dildo with suction cup:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16948

    This non-vibrating dildo also looks good and has high reviews:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16827

    I would also suggest having a read through this LH Link - buyers guide to anal toys:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/buyers-guide/

    Hope this helps :) xx

    Thank you so much for some amazing suggestions!

    I was already looking at the Tantus one you suggested, the only reason why I didn't get it is because it doesn't have a suction cup. But I may reconsider:)

    The vibrating one you suggested also looks very interesting. I may check that one out.

    The butt plug you suggested, I don't know, the idea of a somewhat realisticly shaped one turns me on way more than these butt plugs. Maybe I'm just too stubborn:)

    Anyway, thank you so much for suggestions!

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi welcome check out the LH Welcome page - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/inside-lovehoney/665597-welcome-to-the-lovehoney-forum/

    Why not introduce yourself in the Newbie Initation Test http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/introduce-yourself/19119-newbies-initiation-test/

    We are all a lovely bunch of coconuts have fun & enjoy LH x

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    ChastityTeen [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I have always stood by this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13995.

    I love how it is really the perfect length and width for some fun, especially for someone who has tried things before but not gone too large.

    Just remember however, you definatly need a good amount of waterbased lube. Otherwise nothing is going anywhere.

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    lizac.kurca [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks! I just watched the video with Lisa showing it. It seems very flexible and not too firm. What do you think?

    Also, I was actually looking at a different Basix model, this one:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13992

    A bit of a similar concern, plus the base is not too wide, not sure if it's safe for anal self play?

    Thanks!

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