• G spot or Clitoral stimulation?

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    Dave62 [sign in to see picture]
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    I am looking to buy a vibrator for my wife. I want it to be a surprise so I cant discuss this with her really .

    But what I would like to know is which do women prefer; Clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation?

    Also; which is most likely to make a woman orgasm and which will make a woman squirt?

    Which gives a woman the most pleasure.

    Which vibrators would any members recommend and for which type of stimulation?

    Most greatful of any feedback

    Dave

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    Clit for me but I do like both at the same time ;)

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    myghost [sign in to see picture]
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    if you want to kill two birds with one stone get lovehoney's Humdinger http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21149 you can use it for clitoral or g-spot stimulation

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    GarynChrissy [sign in to see picture]
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    Has to be both for me i love it when Gary plays with my clit and G spot thats when i squirt the most

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    Hi Dave

    Personally I need to have clitoral stimulation. This product never fails and your Wife will be forever grateful if you buy her one!! It is outstanding and I love it - you really can't go wrong with one of these. I have posted the original - which I have and also the new gift pack which is the same wand in purple but also includes a storage case and a g-spot attachment. Hope this helps :) xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28707

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    GarynChrissy [sign in to see picture]
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    HI Dave i have to totally agree with Scorpius12, Gary brought me the the http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464 as i have never tried a wand and this just blew my stockings off litteraly, was only delivered Tuesday and have litterally not put it down its that good.

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    You already know more about your wife than any of us here. What does she respond best to when you're together? Is there a specific sex act you find difficult or awkward or would like extra help or variety with? The extra length of a toy can be more comfortable for g-spot stimulation; a slim g-spot dildo like Lelo's Ella is essentialy a longer, more ergonomic finger.

    Pretty much any vibe can be used clitorally as well as internally, including the head of most g-spot vibes. Figuring out which ones will work well for your wife will probably take a bit of experimentation. We're all different, so any one person's recommendation is hit or miss for someone else. I can tell you that I prefer curves in my g-spot toys, but some of the straighter ones like the Humdinger have great reviews from others. Read the reviews, think about what your wife likes from you (does she tend to prefer rapid or slower, hard or light, and so on), and take a punt. If it doesn't work out, you have a year to return it.

    Some clit vibes are only external, usually because they're too small to do much inside or too wide to fit comfortably. It's not hard to figure out what's what based on the shape. Those are great for variety.

    Great sale going on, so take a look, read some reviews and don't stress about it. There isn't any one right answer.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/

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    I always prefer clitoral stimulation. If someone was buying me a gift I would love either the wee vibe tango or the LH deluxe vibrator. Those are my two favourite clitoral stimulators x

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    blonde vixen13 wrote:

    I always prefer clitoral stimulation. If someone was buying me a gift I would love either the wee vibe tango or the LH deluxe vibrator. Those are my two favourite clitoral stimulators x

    These get my vote too

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    KinkyFuckery wrote:

    blonde vixen13 wrote:

    I always prefer clitoral stimulation. If someone was buying me a gift I would love either the wee vibe tango or the LH deluxe vibrator. Those are my two favourite clitoral stimulators x

    These get my vote too

    Same here. These get my vote to. They really are fantastic.

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    Dave62 wrote:

    I am looking to buy a vibrator for my wife. I want it to be a surprise so I cant discuss this with her really .

    But what I would like to know is which do women prefer; Clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation?

    Also; which is most likely to make a woman orgasm and which will make a woman squirt?

    Which gives a woman the most pleasure.

    Which vibrators would any members recommend and for which type of stimulation?

    Most greatful of any feedback

    Dave

    Which do women prefer BOTH! of course as they are both erogonous zones, all women are different though some don't have a gspot, some cant squirt and some will soak you! Same goes for sex toys each is an individual so it would be hard for any of us to say what is best. You know what she enjoys in bed and how she likes it, now all you need to know is what sex toy does what, your best bet is reading LH reviews and deciding for yourself.

    I personally found this amazing for Gspot, its not too wide in girth, it's versatile with different textures and you can use temperature which is bloody freezing at first but after its amazing.
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187

    If however you want a vibrator then go for a rabbit, every woman needs a classic its a two in one deal dildo and vibrator for clit

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15336


    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2448
    or ease her into it by having a laugh and cloning your own together and then leave it with her when you go away..

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    Hi there, :)

    I am looking to buy a vibrator for my wife. I want it to be a surprise so I cant discuss this with her really .

    But what I would like to know is which do women prefer; Clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation?

    Just like men, women all like different things and sensations. Whilst some prefer clitoral stimulation, other's may prefer G-spot stimulation, and other's may prefer both at the same time - every woman is different. If you don't know what your wife prefers you could try subtly asking her during foreplay or sex.

    Also; which is most likely to make a woman orgasm and which will make a woman squirt?

    Women are more likely to orgasm through clitoral stimulation - most of us actually need this to orgasm, however some women can orgasm just from G-spot / internal stimulation alone but I don't think this is as common. Regarding squirting, not all of us are able to squirt. G-spot stimulation is more likely to make women squirt, however some can squirt from clitoral stimulation once they've learnt how to acheive squirting. This may be of some use on how to squirt: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2007/09/06/female-ejaculation-how-to-squirt/.

    Which gives a woman the most pleasure.

    Again, as I said before, all of us are different and what I may find the most pleasurable, someone else may not and may find the complete opposite gives them more pleasure. The best thing to do would be to communicate to your wife whilst in the bedroom and to watch and listen to how her body reacts when you do certain things to her.

    Which vibrators would any members recommend and for which type of stimulation?

    The Lovehoney Deluxe Magic Wand is a favourite for loads of people here, I don't have it but everyone makes me wish I do! haha. It can be used for clitoral stimulation or massages so is a great multi-purpose toy. There is the original wand at £49.99 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464 or you can get the newer purple wand, storage bag, and G-spot attatchment for £74.99 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28707 plus you get a Sqweel 2 with it absolutely free making this pack much better value! And you're getting the best of both - a toy for both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

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    hornykitty [sign in to see picture]
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    I actually own and have reviewed the wand with g spot attachment and sqweel.

    The wand with g spot attachment is too soft to be an effctive gspot stimulant you are better with a harder material hence the effectiveness of glass, with the wand it is basically a very strong vibrator, if your wife is into that then it will be brilliant but perhaps too much for a first sex toy.
    It is not something I often use it is only something you would turn to if your not getting strong enough vibrations from your vib(bullet, butterfly, rabbit etc) so it would probably be better to start with a rabbit.

    In terms of the sqweel it has a lot of good reviews but personally OH and I didn't like it, it feels nothing like oral and didn't feel nice.

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