• Need a step up from beginner's buttplug?

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    Heartofwax [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey all!

    I'm new to the forum but certainly not to lovehoney. I've been with my bf for 7 months and can safely say he's only the 2nd person I've actually enjoyed sex with (rather than just... doing it because it's what people do.. etc lol).

    I dropped lots of not so subtle hints about wanting to try anal (I have tried it in the past but not with much success), and he bought us a small vibrating butt plug to play with (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8436), which I have now conquered lol. We have a bit of a problem with it in that it slips out easily, however it does feel good and the vibrations are great and help mask that slightly uncomfortable feeling, just my OH has to keep a hold of it!

    Can anyone reccommend a product that we could move on to from here?

    Thank you :)

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    There's not much more girth in it but it is longer... http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=23981

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Or if you want more girth this is really good but doesn't vibrate

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27149

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Miacat wrote:

    Hey all!

    I'm new to the forum but certainly not to lovehoney. I've been with my bf for 7 months and can safely say he's only the 2nd person I've actually enjoyed sex with (rather than just... doing it because it's what people do.. etc lol).

    I dropped lots of not so subtle hints about wanting to try anal (I have tried it in the past but not with much success), and he bought us a small vibrating butt plug to play with (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8436), which I have now conquered lol. We have a bit of a problem with it in that it slips out easily, however it does feel good and the vibrations are great and help mask that slightly uncomfortable feeling, just my OH has to keep a hold of it!

    Can anyone reccommend a product that we could move on to from here?

    Thank you :)

    Hi Miacat and Welcome to the forums. I have this plug and really love it :

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

    I know what you mean about the slimmer ones - they do tend to 'shoot out' - lol. I find that this one is a step up from the beginners ones and stays put really well.

    Hope this helps :) xx

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Best advice I have take it nice and slow , lube lube lube , start off small and dont get eyes bigger than your belly .

    LH have a great buyers guide -http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/

    I started off with http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13085

    Then got a butt plug so you are used to slipping something inside you - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 or you could buy a kit and work your way up - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    I then got a douche - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 dead easy to use and simple and makes you clean esp when your using bigger toys as I worked my way up to an anal dildo to get to used to the fact that he will be inside me - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16726

    Then I brought http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17072 to get fill what it will be like,

    Honestly try it slow if you enjoy it you enjoy it its not for everyone, dont put any pressure on yourself slow and lube it taken me about 6 months to work my way up, just taken it at my own pace.

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