• Anal beads?

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    Sassy_chick [sign in to see picture]
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    Myself and the lad I am seeing want to try anal. He has done it before, ive done it twice (dont even know if you'd call it that) as was very quick and an in out *that hurts* kind of thing! I've just ordered anal beads and anal lube in the hope it gets me used to the sensations and hopefully i gain pleasure from it so that i can do it with him properly, but i have no idea how to use them!! Anyone help me? x

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    Make sure your in the mood firstly, then use loads of anal lube and insert them one by one :)

    I love wearing them to warm up so I can take bigger things or wearing the during normal sex.

    Good luck!

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    Best thing is to start slow, just put the first bead in first and get used to it. The first anal beads i had started very small so the first one, two or even three beads give a small amount of pleasure but don't push the boundaries much.

    Don't try and take them all in straight away, it make take a few sessions to build up to the whole thing but as long as you feel comfortable you'll have a good time.

    J

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    Sassy_chick [sign in to see picture]
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    Well the beads i bought are only short, smallest bead is 1.5" and biggest is 3" with a finger loop for removal! Think there is only 4/5 beads on them anyway as i did think it was best to start small and short.. So would you insert them the same way you do ben wa balls? x

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    I have no experience of inserting ben walls personally (being male) but i would say lots of lube (especially for first time - just in case) and just press the first bead again your bum. Push a little (help it along if necessary) until it goes in. To be honest if they're small you may not even feel the first one (i didn't really) but a gentle pull and you'll feel the fact it's there and you'll feel it on the way out ;). Then let yourself get comfy and either try the second or remove and reinsert to get used to motion.

    J

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    Hi sassy chick take it slow and relax. Lots and lots of lube on your bum and inside. Then all over the beads too. Have a nice hot bath to loosen up. If you are planning your first time with your OH then get him to massage your bum to relax it and take your time. I f on your own you can go at your own speed. Good luck and enjoy

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    Ok thanks everyoneee! :D Hopefully all goes well!! :D Should be here by Friday haha!! so relax and lots of lube!! xx

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    And remember the main thrill from anal beads is when you pull them out slowly at the point of orgasm. Prepare for take off!

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    Can not WAIT!!!

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    Sassy_chick wrote:

    Can not WAIT!!!

    The anticipation is one of the best bits enjoy

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Sassy_chick wrote:

    Can not WAIT!!! <

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    Dont you worry! I will do ;)

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Sassy_chick wrote:

    Can not WAIT!!!

    The anticipation is one of the best bits enjoy

    What a shame that it's over when the anticipated event arrives

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    With my first beads I was so nervous. I actually found it easiest to relax at a random time during the day then I'd wear them around the house (and maybe for a cheeky trip to the shops).
    Beads are really similar to Ben wa balls just a little smaller and lighter.

    Just make sure you're relaxed and it'll be amazing.

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    Holz105 wrote:

    With my first beads I was so nervous. I actually found it easiest to relax at a random time during the day then I'd wear them around the house (and maybe for a cheeky trip to the shops).
    Beads are really similar to Ben wa balls just a little smaller and lighter.

    Just make sure you're relaxed and it'll be amazing.

    ok thanks!! :D xx

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