• Looking to begin anal sex?

    RachaelClaire [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 26 Sep 2013

    Me and my partner were keen to try anal sex but i was concerned about pain... So we bought.. Beginners Basic Slimline Butt Buddy Butt Plug and Beginners Basic Anal Douche.. And they are both fantastic items!!

    The Basic Butt Plug is made from a very smooth rubber which is pain-free!! The Basic Douche was very useful, it did the job perfectly, with a little lube to help ease its use it is a very good buy!!

    Highly recommended!!

    I had no problems with the items, just that if you were wanting something big and chunky the Butt Plug isn't for you, it definitely is for beginners.

    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya RachaelClaire - Pleased you got on well with these - I also have that Butt Plug and it is very good. I have posted a couple of links below that may be useful to you:



    One other thing you may want to use is an anal relaxant - I personally use this one:


    I use it every time I use butt plugs, or do any type of anal play - and it really does make things so much easier. The great thing is that you really don’t loose any sensation at all - and there are no long-term effects. Nothing gets looser, so to speak - it just helps things to relax and not to burn. I have written a review for this which is on that link too. Hope this all helps :) xx

    Stephanie [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi RachaelClaire,

    Welcome to the forums! I hope you'll enjoy it here. Have you already seen the Forum Rules?

    I've just posted on your other thread about writing product reviews. If you go to the product page that you want to review you'll see a link to "Add your review" near the top next to the star rating. We have to approve all reviews so it might take a little while to show up, but we do not remove negative reviews, so you can share your experience of a toy with others whether you liked it or not.

    Thanks so much for your positive comments!


    Bluebells [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi RachelClaire - glad to hear you've enjoyed your experience with anal sex so far. The pain idea is indeed offputting before you start but it's a really worthwhile thing to try.

    If yoy both liked the Butt Buddy, you might also enjoy the Booty Buddy:


    I wrote a review about this - it was one of my first as I've only just joined here and I suppose I'm showing it off!

    The Booty Buddy is a little bigger than yours and maybe a good option if you want to take a step up. It's a lovely toy and has given me so many orgasms in the year or so I've had it.

    I'm itntrigued by the idea of relaxants - how do they work? And do that not dull the sensations?

    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Best advice I have take it nice and slow , lube lube lube , start off small and dont get eyes bigger than your belly .

    LH have a great buyers guide -http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/

    I started off with http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13085

    Then got a butt plug so you are used to slipping something inside you - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 or you could buy a kit and work your way up - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    I then got a douche - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 easy to use and simple and makes you clean esp when your using bigger toys as I worked my way up to an anal dildo to get to used to the fact that he will be inside me - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16726

    Then I brought http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17072 to get fill what it will be like,

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