Problems with length

Heya, i recently took the plunge and decided to buy my first toy, its 7". Thing is while its width is not a problem, its length is. I can only get it in about 5" and if i try push it any further i feel a sharp pain inside of me like it just wont go any further. I really want to get that last little bit inside but it just won't go. Am i hitting my limit or am i just not relaxed enough or something? The toy is rarther firm and rubber

try switching positions, I think if you straighten your legs it gives you the best chance.

STOP if it hurts!

Yes, ive never used an anal toy but from what i have read you should always stop when it hurts as sxe_couple21 said!

but yes you could try changing your postion as the angle is very important!

it might be that a toy this long is not right for you!

if it still hurts, even when you switch positions, trying a toy made from a more flexible material or with a curved shape.

remember to use lots of lubrication as well.  a warm shower might help relax you a little

redapple wrote:

Don't forget the bowel does start turning to the left so far in, thats why the nurse or doctor will ask you to turn on your left side for enemas and investigations .......................... xx

Well l do recall the plastic skeletons etc, but you live and learn don;t you!!!

TB

A girl once got nearly the full length of a drumstick (the musical type, not chicken! I know how TB thinks!) into my ass! She well lubed me up though and I had to wiggle it in as she manipulated it.

Ouch!!

SG69

Hah don't worry, i stop if there is pain. I was woundering which way your intestine turned though, thanks for clearing that up. and that drumstick sounds painfull! lol But the thought of a chicken drumstick up there is hilarous

I havn't tried using the toy while laying on my left or with my legs straight, so ill try out a few more positions then :)

Hopefully it's not a firmness problem. But i have the his n hers g-spot toy aswell and i love it XD

Hi Knux (where did knux come from?)

I was stood up for the drumstick experience and believe me it was an experience! She gave me a blow job and wanked me off and kept hitting the stick throughout, I came like a volcano for her.

SG69

Stop when your eyes start bulging out of your sockets.. you know your a bit deep! 

A doctor I once knew told me the maximum length of anything you should try and insert into your ass is 8 inches, but it can vary between 6 and 8 for different people.  After that you hit the top of the rectum, with the colon going off to one side in a loop.

You definitely DO NOT want to be forcing anything solid against the top of your rectum - it could rupture it and cause you major injury.   Width is safer than length if you like going to extremes with anal play.  Whatever you do though, respect your body and take it gently! 

Did you know that in days of old, one of the ressucitation methods for drowning victims was to blow smoke up their anus.  There used to be kits desigtned for such purpose. 

Hench the phrase.. don't blow smoke up his ass! 

Who the hell thought of trying that one first off???  It'll be those Navy lads again!!!

Damn the quote thing's not working, but BBG eek what about the poor porn stars?? Seems to be common to take waaay more than 8 inches. Scary scary!

Flexibility's the answer it gets you round the bend !!!!
TB

I'm a relative newcomer to the whole anal thig and in my short period of experience I've found that I have no real problems with length. Girth I have issues with... it can take a lot of lube and a lot of patience sometimes, which is often a real pain in the arse.

(I'm quite pleased with that pun, even though I'm sure it's been done many times before)

Re ImeldaImelda's comment on sunday. . .

I too have seen some massive cocks in asses, jeeez!

SG69

I think the human sphincter can stretch to accomodate just about anything.  After all, my supervisor seems to have his entire head up his arse! 

Ha Ha, nice one Mucky. There's loads of arse lickers in our place like that too mate.

SG69

First time I've heard of the 8 inch thing....what happens if you've doubled that!? Lol!

*gulp*  how much have you taken strapon?