Sex toys for men who dont "do" sex toys?

As the title says really.... I spend so much on toys for me and us to use, i'd love to get something my hubby could enjoy himself.

Ive bought him: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9638 and

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9058

But he isnt that impressed with them, he says they are ok but he doesnt get enjoyment from them they way i do with my rabbit etc

So what could i try next? I dont want to spend loads incase he doesnt like it, plus he's strictley not into anal play.

Thanks

Sexy~Pink x

The only toy my hubby has relly got is a fleshlight, he enjoys it but he wouldn't use it that often, he gave it a good review though

xxx

The Tenga range of Onacups are great - they're like a posher and more realistic feeling version of the 'stroker' style toys you posted. I wrote a very positive review at http://factsandfriction.blogspot.com/2008/08/tenga-soft-air-cushion-onacup.html or on the LH site for that item - have a read and see what you think :)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/s.cfm?term=tenga

I haven't tried their 'egg' range but I imagine they'd be rather nice too!

To be honest you are worried about expenses.  But..... I greatly do believe you need to spend that little bit extra.  I myself would greatly recommend the TENGA FLIPHOLE.  New but it is much better than it is.

I've tried a variety of male sex toys but if I could go back in time and save money, this would be the toy to get.  To me the fleshlight is'nt that special.  Is was then, when the Tenga was not out.  Besides the fleshlight has gone up in price and now warrants more people just to jump the boat and buy the tenga.

I can't vouch for the tenga egg's but it would put me off at the start.  Could'nt see straight and stop laughing everytime I entered a tesco/asda/sainsbury etc for eggs.

Some people say get the onacup's from tenga but you will have to use a condom as they are designed for one use only.

From start to end, I recommend the following:

(1) Tenga Flip Hole. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14734.

Reason: washable.  Brilliant lubes that do help. 3 buttons which when pressed can feel like a deepthroat, blow job etc.

(2) Fleshlight. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14726.  Just selected this picture as she is a porn star lol.  Anyway, they all the same except for the internal part which have different ridges.  From my experience they don't make much difference.

(3) Silicone lube.  http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13219. Not a toy but when the OH wanks you off this is the lube to have!!!!

Perhaps he's just not bothered and gets all his satisfaction from you?   My hubby just keeps getting annoyed when I show him things on here - I showed him the doggy style strap and he said he would hate it as he wouldn't be touching me.

My hubby doesn't get much from the double cock ring with bullet that I got, he says he doesn't feel any harder or have stronger orgasms with it and apart from it keeping him at a good angle when I'm on top it does nothing for me either -  the bullet vibrations are way too high pitched for both of us I think. 

I've shown my hubby lots of male toys on here and there's not a single thing he fancies - my mouth, hand + lube are good enough for him, he says.   He ( or I  for that matter) can't understand why a man with a partner would want a fleshlight or similar and he would want nothing to go near his bum!

I gave a few friends Tenga Eggs this easter as a bit of a change from the usual chocolate, and from the feedback they have given me I'd say they must be pretty good! Maybe you can get somwthing you can both enjoy, like a vibrating cock ring?

Of course not everyone is into toys, just like not everyone likes bondage, or ice cream, or classical music. Maybe he can buy you toys, and you in turn can buy him cd's or something else he'll like?

I second Jake's Tenga Onacup vote! I poked my finger in the  Standard Edition Deep Throat Onacup today and it reaalllly made me wish I had a penis!

I think one of the things about male sex toys is that men feel embarrassed about them, after all there's something incredibly erotic about a woman using a vibrator but a man fucking a plastic tube doesn't seem quite as sexy! The thing is, it actually can be very very very sexy to watch them play with a toy but having been brainwashed by lads mags and their mates saying that men having sex toys is weird and perverted, they feel silly doing it. Lots of encouragement  is key and letting him have a play with it on his own, without you there, is likely to get him feeling happier and more confident about doing it in front of you!

Or, as Ian said, he may not be into male sex toys. Why not try getting him a porn DVD or buying him a gadget instead - if you get him a video or digital camera he'll have fun pressing all the buttons and even more fun recording what you two get up to!

LoveHoney - Carly wrote:

I second Jake's http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/store.cfm?cat=21318 vote! I poked my finger in the  http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12446 today and it reaalllly made me wish I had a penis!

Feeels goooood, doesn't it? They don't last forever though, the flip hole may be a better investment.

I'd just buy him this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4761, hand him some lube and tell him to man up.

Haha or not, no the Tenga range is very man-friendly. They're so well designed they shed any misconceptions about sex toys being pervy or not cool or anything. You could even use it with him, get him aroused with your hands/mouth then alternate sliding a tenga like toy up and down on his cock with using your mouth. I bet soon he'd be wanting to use it on his own :)

Jake of Facts and Friction wrote:

LoveHoney - Carly wrote:

I second Jake's http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/store.cfm?cat=21318 vote! I poked my finger in the  http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12446 today and it reaalllly made me wish I had a penis!

Feeels goooood, doesn't it? They don't last forever though, the flip hole may be a better investment.

I'd just buy him this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4761, hand him some lube and tell him to man up.

Haha or not, no the Tenga range is very man-friendly. They're so well designed they shed any misconceptions about sex toys being pervy or not cool or anything. You could even use it with him, get him aroused with your hands/mouth then alternate sliding a tenga like toy up and down on his cock with using your mouth. I bet soon he'd be wanting to use it on his own :)

I purchased this for my hubby and he loves it!! I know what you mean about poking your finger in it too.  It feels goooood!!

I also got him the £20 flesh light when it was on offer, think hes getting rather into his toys now! ;)

Thanks guys x

I've used the tonguejoy to great success with guys who weren't normally into toys http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=396 but it is maybe more a couple's thing coz I use it while giving him a blowjob

One of the reasons I don't  "do" sex toys is how annoying they are to clean! I have a couple but don't really use them!

I don't think you can beat a good blowjob and theres no mess!

I've used the tenga egg wavy which was good stuff!

SG69 x

Nexas wrote:

WandA wrote:

One of the reasons I don't  "do" sex toys is how annoying they are to clean! I have a couple but don't really use them!

I don't think you can beat a good blowjob and theres no mess!

You need to try the Tenga Flip Hole. You can open it and run water over it and it's clean pretty fast.

I'd Love too, they sound good!... but the blowjobs are free aswell!

I thought i was not into sex toys till i tried the seventeen two layer japanese realistic vagina and the miho meashima realistic japanese maturbator  they are the best on the market can be used on his own if your not around or with you helping prob even more fun with both of you there.read the reviews i put on them they are spot on and i can not recommend these items to you enough, at £19.99 and £14.99 they are excellent value for money and do a great job.

firstly, if i may say, that grey spikey toy looks terrifying.

my 'other half' is exactly the same and honestly, i don't think i want to change that.

i'd rather him get the pleasure from me than turn to a toy.

although saying that, i do very much enjoy sexy things with him!

i think she means the colt handjob stroker thing