• Recommend a lube for sensitive gf

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    MrGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi guys...here it is...my 1st post in earnest :)

    I was looking a recommendation on a lube for my girlfriend and wasn't quite sure....her clit is mega sensitive and can't be handled so I assume anything tingly is far from ideal?!

    She finds long periods of sex uncomfortable on her lips and entrance so would I be right in thinking a good lube will ease things and get her enjoying it more??

    Lastly.....I frequently tease her by making love to her for short periods and pulling out to go down on her very quickly...it drives her wild, but will a lube reduce the pleasure I receive from oral on her??

    Many many thanks guys!

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    Labyrinth [sign in to see picture]
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    I struggle with sensitivity and allergies quite a lot but found this lube to be amazing:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163

    A tiny bit goes a very long way, however it would probably interfer with the oral, it does have an odd taste to it

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    MissChar [sign in to see picture]
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    MrGrey wrote:

    Lastly.....I frequently tease her by making love to her for short periods and pulling out to go down on her very quickly...it drives her wild, but will a lube reduce the pleasure I receive from oral on her??

    Many many thanks guys!

    I use the sliquid organics range because my OH is sensitive.

    In regards to the oral question, as long as the lube doesn't taste strongly it shouldn't affect your pleasure or hers, but if you are worried about it there are flavoured lubes available from loads of different brands! x

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    bumblebee [sign in to see picture]
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    durex cherry flavour is nommy ;)

    not much I can add, but although this is water based and isn't supposed to have any special powers (lol) I find it to be really warming, verging on an uncomfortable burny feeling, so you might not want to use this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25007

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    MrGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Many thanks guys...was considering just nipping to the supermarket and trying Durex Play Feel...anyone any experiences or will this not be ideal??

    My last experience with lube didnt go well with an ex...it was Durex Tingle, she felt uncomfortable and we had to stop...was part of a multi-box which had flavoured ones so no loss really haha ;)

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    bumblebee [sign in to see picture]
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    I have heard a lot of bad experiences with tingle, but as I understand they have changed it slightly now.

    never used feel, so not sure. hope you find something that works for her though

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    Viridianuk [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163

    this is what I use... It is a great lube... And it doesn't taste funny either

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    MrGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Cheers everyone...waow Liquid Silk certainly seems to be doing the trick eh!! Yea Bumblebee....I felt quite bad as she had to get a shower and scrub it off so I wasnt volunterring to lick it off!!!!!!

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    We use KY as I tend to be sensitive and have reactions to certain products. Cant use anything that cools or tingles at all cause its just too uncomfortable. KY is great because it lasts for ages, I dont need to worry about getting a uti or having a reaction and also, if he goes down on me after sex, it tastes fine.

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    I tend to be very sensitive as well, the only one i have found to work for me so far is the sliquid range so it depends just how sensitive she is, trial and error i suppose but even liquid silk which is a great lube didn't work for me.

    I did personally find liquid silk has a bit of an odd taste but there isn't any taste to the sliquid H2O that i use. I have tried Durex play Feel and actually didn't find it too bad and it has very little taste so might be worth a try.

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    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
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    I am sensitive too, but I am sensitive to parabens and glycerin, so I am using Sliquid Oceanics and I find its a great lube, not too runny and lasts decently long.

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    MrGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Apologies if I've been misundertood but her clit is sensitive in that if I rub it, even gently, she can flinch as she says it is tickly....is there desentifying lube like the stuff in delay condomsand would it lower her satisfaction??

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Mr Grey, I am quite sensitive myself, and agree with the posts that sat that the Sliquid range of lubes are fantastic. The are free from nasties and a little really does go a long way. My personal favourites are:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11369 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11373 Also just to let you know - LH have a Special Offer on Sliquid Lubes currently where you get 15% off if you buy 2 products: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/special-offers/2149/ I don't think a desensitising product would help - this may cause irritation and may tastle bad and numb you too! Just try and be gentle and don't focus directly on her clit - just tease around the edges until she can take more. Apologies if this a bit waffley - but I hope it helps :)

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