• Male Anal Beginner Help

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    Let me give a bit of a back story.

    I am a single father looking after my 2 year old daughter by myself.
    Being on my own can get rather lonely and using my hands gets boring sometimes.
    So I grabbed myself a Vibrating Cock Ring which I love.

    Also I had bought a G Spot vibe for my ex while she was here which she left behind. So just recently I have been using that too alongside the cock ring.

    The vibrations from that on the senstive spot on my cock is just amazing.
    Anyway, back on topic!

    I find I am getting rather bored with just typical masturbation so I want to push myself out of my comfort zone and try something daring (for me atleast).

    I have looked at some of these Prostate Massagers and other bits and bobs but I don't even know where to begin.
    I am a total anal beginner, so what I require from you lovely people is some assistance.

    Where do I start?
    What do I buy?
    What do I do?

    Apologies for the large post!

    Thanks a lot :)

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    IrishChris [sign in to see picture]
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    Can I ask, have you tried using the vibe in your ass?

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    MissChar [sign in to see picture]
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    Start small so you don't hurt yourself! Get a small beginners butt plug (vibrating if you like that) and if you enjoy it you can move up a size. Well thats what I did..Or you could use anal beads

    There is a really helpful LH video on anal toys for beginners but I can't find it at the moment..will post if i do :)

    Here is one on anal beads :)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/tv/2388/

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    IrishChris wrote:

    Can I ask, have you tried using the vibe in your ass?

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2008

    That is the Vibe I currently own. Right now I don't dare use that for anal. I fear the tip to be too wide for a beginner like myself.

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    MissChar [sign in to see picture]
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    Here are all the beginners anal toys.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/beginners-anal-toys/

    I really suggest using one of these, either a butt plug or beads. You need to get used to the sensation you really dont wanna hurt yourself!

    My first butt plug was http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479

    or you could get a kit

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27275 (thats a whole anal toy starter kit, bargain!)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22285 xx

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    IrishChris [sign in to see picture]
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    WombRaider wrote:

    IrishChris wrote:

    Can I ask, have you tried using the vibe in your ass?

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2008

    That is the Vibe I currently own. Right now I don't dare use that for anal. I fear the tip to be too wide for a beginner like myself.

    I would suggest experimenting with it. I've had that exact style vibe in my ass and it was AMAZING - reached my prostate perfectly and the orgasm was wild.

    Use lots of lube and go very easily and gently. The trick is to completely relax - any tensing and nothing will get in there. Masturbate for a while first (without cumming) and edge yourself. Get really into it. The first few times you may not even want (or be able) to put the vibe inside your ass. Still use it turned on to stimulate your ass area though.

    It may take time until you are comfortable to have it inside you, but when you do..... WOW

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    MissChar wrote:

    My first butt plug was http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479

    That looks perfect!

    Could you suggest a specific Anal Lube and also would you suggest getting/using an Anal Douche?

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    I would suggest experimenting with it. I've had that exact style vibe in my ass and it was AMAZING - reached my prostate perfectly and the orgasm was wild.

    Use lots of lube and go very easily and gently. The trick is to completely relax - any tensing and nothing will get in there. Masturbate for a while first (without cumming) and edge yourself. Get really into it. The first few times you may not even want (or be able) to put the vibe inside your ass. Still use it turned on to stimulate your ass area though.

    It may take time until you are comfortable to have it inside you, but when you do..... WOW

    You know I never actually thought to use it on the outside of my ass.

    I may just give that a try later on. Thanks for the suggestion :)

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    MissChar [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah its really little (and comes in black though i got the pink ;) )

    DEFINITELY get a douche!! I have this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5181 which I got in the 'buy 2 anal toys get a vibrating anal wand deal' but i think a cheaper beginners one would do the same thing, such as this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952

    And I recommend maximus anal lube! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13084

    although my boyfriend is sensitive so we use an organic one :) but maximus is my fave xx

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    IrishChris [sign in to see picture]
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    WombRaider wrote:

    I would suggest experimenting with it. I've had that exact style vibe in my ass and it was AMAZING - reached my prostate perfectly and the orgasm was wild.

    Use lots of lube and go very easily and gently. The trick is to completely relax - any tensing and nothing will get in there. Masturbate for a while first (without cumming) and edge yourself. Get really into it. The first few times you may not even want (or be able) to put the vibe inside your ass. Still use it turned on to stimulate your ass area though.

    It may take time until you are comfortable to have it inside you, but when you do..... WOW

    You know I never actually thought to use it on the outside of my ass.

    I may just give that a try later on. Thanks for the suggestion :)

    As you get into it and relax, you will eventually be able to slip it into your ass comfortably.

    Plus, the bonus with that shape is that it will act as a plug once inside and stay in by itself - you can go back to focusing on your dick and balls with both hands!

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    midlands20 [sign in to see picture]
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    I completely agee with MissChar, Definitely get a douche, they're not much and make all the difference, the anal lube I use is; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22575 and it works great!

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    Dazzels [sign in to see picture]
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    I strongly surggest this toy to start with, it is where I began.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4463

    It's nice and thin so dosen't hurt much without lube and the length means you have something to hold firmly while you look for your prostate, just go easy on it when you do.

    A big must is LUBE! get a basic thick one, preferably designed for anal. Another tip is keep something on hand to clean up afterwards, like wet wipes.

    Next, the vibrations are just right with this toy and so much fun.

    Finally, it looks obvious but don't sit down with it in, otherwise expect a trip to the doctors.

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    Cameo [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe to start off with try a finger? That's how it happened with me anyway... I had a little play session masturbating while massaging my prostate and felt how amazing it was. After that it became a craving for more and better sensations!

    Anyway, have fun (and relax)!

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for all the amazing suggestions. Now the only problem is what to buy out of all these fantastic selections!

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    ALL of them! ;) haha nah you cant go wrong with any of these suggestions :) enjoy! xx

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    MissChar wrote:

    ALL of them! ;) haha nah you cant go wrong with any of these suggestions :) enjoy! xx

    Going to go with the basics that you suggested.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16479

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13084

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952

    Hopefully if all goes well I shall be back in future to buy bigger and better things ;)

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    Awesome :) let me know how you get on! xx

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    WombRaider [sign in to see picture]
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    MissChar wrote:

    Awesome :) let me know how you get on! xx

    I will do :)

    May have to wait until my next pay day to actually buy them but still, the anticipation is killing me :D

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    The best advice for beginners is never stiff on the lube. Lube lube lube! Very important and also ease into it and make sure you have a lot of time you need to relax and let it happen.

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    I've got this kit http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13504 I can highly recommend it! You can read my review of it on my profile if you want. =)

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