• Cannot orgasm from using vibrating vagina

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    TX_UK [sign in to see picture]
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    I've noticed for the last few months, I get really hard and almost reach orgasm but then everything fades and I go soft without any climax. Most frustrating as the best satisfying orgasms have been from using my vibrating vagina. Anyone else experienced this?

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    Rowan [sign in to see picture]
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    As AA says it's very common. Speak to your doc as it can sometimes be an early indication of something more serious but most likely due to stress, tiredness or change, I suggest giving the frustrating toy a break due to the getting caught in a loop of 'will it happen *this* time' and increasing the pressure on yourself to TRY and orgasm. Try not to worry as it's almost certainly temporary. Try some different types of stimulation for a bit and give your go-to old trusty a wee rest to see if you've maybe built up a tolerance (sometimes happens to women who then tend to upgrade to stronger vibes. Good luck.

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    TX_UK [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks. I can orgasm with using just my hand so no problem there. Not under stress but this has been going on for quite sometime now. On occasions I can get as near to orgasm as it's possible to without the final climax! I expect that my body has become 'tolerant' to the stimulation.

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    rubysoho [sign in to see picture]
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    maybe , as is the case with me and vibes , youve built up a tolerance and need something with stronger vibrations ? i get bored of my toys easily and am always on the search for something that packs more punch

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    MissChar [sign in to see picture]
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    rubysoho wrote:

    maybe , as is the case with me and vibes , youve built up a tolerance and need something with stronger vibrations ? i get bored of my toys easily and am always on the search for something that packs more punch

    Agree with ruby, I always change up what toys I'm using, go for different texture, variation in speed, strength, patterns, size. :)

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    TX_UK [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks! Again great advice.

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    protectyournuts [sign in to see picture]
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    Maybe just switch it up, I go between toys so it's never exactly the same thing, different vibrations and sensations every time. Sure I have my favourites and I'd probably use them more often, but definately break it up.

    I've had it happen sometimes where I've went soft, and had to use my hand to get over the edge, but it's been long and frustrating, almost like starting from the start again, frustrating as hell!

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    TwoSpokedWheel [sign in to see picture]
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    It could also be an issue with deathgrip or overdoing porn. Check this out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

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