is it normal?

hello,

just a quick question that i'm hoping will settle my mind.....

after all of your tips on the joys of anal and sharing your techniques, i think i've finally cracked it and i'm having great fun - so much so that i asked my boyfriend to take some photos for me...

how to put this politely?  there was more hair than i expected around my bum hole. not monkey loads, but....i was really embarressed and asked him if that was "normal", but his ex was waxed all over so he said he wasnt really used to any anywhere. which made me feel worse!

i'm comfortable that i'm "tidy" out front, but the hairy bum thing has just got me a little upset.

any words of comfort?  or should i get an appointment at the salon!  or can you get rid of it at home? dont think i'd fancy shaving where i cant really see!

thanks in advance

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just wanted to point out that its not him making me feel concerned about it....just self imposed (and a little curiosity now i've started thinking about it!)

If you are letting your fella in your whazoo then a few hairs won't matter a jot!  A few are normal.  He'll just be greatful of the access all areas pass!

I have been an ass man as long as I can remember, most past girlfrieds have been into (or gone along with) anal & they all have had some hairaround that area, just a few as you said.  The blonde girls you would hardly notice, the Black haired darker skined ladies show it up more (Just look Penelope Cruz's arms!).

Don't worry about it, I remember reading that Carmen Electra has her ass crack waxed when she does her 'housekeeping' so you can rest easy that even the Playboy bunnies have a bit of fluff there too! 

:) thank you mucky duck!

must admit, i started in the "going along with" category, but now in the "into it" one!

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Good girl.... It is well worth the effort ain't it?

 Mrs Duck was the same way, now I think she likes it more than me... the filth that comes out of her mouth during a good bumming would make a pimp blush!

yes it is!

to begin with, i only wanted it when i was feeling slutty as we'd only been doing it with me on all fours and him behind me (easier access!), but now i've discovered we can do it just as well with me sitting on top of him, it feels a little "gentler" if you know what i mean? i can control the tempo and he can play with my boobs/clit too) We tried it at the weekend with me on top and a little bang bang bullett on my clit - Amazing! Although my pussy started feeling left out!

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Phwoar... That sounds hot.  My tummy banana is twitching!  You'll have to do some research & find a nice love egg or small vibe for your pussy. 

Mrs Duck uses a Mantic egg http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=412  I get a lovely sensation too.  If she's really fruity she'll pick up one of her smaller vibes for some gentle DP fun (nothing heavy).

From what you have described you could have 'I fuck donkeys' tattoo'd on your ass & he wouldn't care, he won't be looking or remotely bothered about a few hairs!

Yes!  It's completely normal.  Ideally as long as you have less than him I think you're ok!  You can wax them off easily at a salon if you particularly want (it's a regular part of a hollywood or brazillian) and I do that occassionally but I think it's important that we realise it's normal to have hair and I wouldn't get upset about it.

thank you imeldaimelda - sometimes you just need that bit of reassurance......

may feel brave enough to post the photos on the blog now! lol!

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 Hmmm that makes me want to add some decent pics so as not to disappoint you Nexus...haven't had the inspiration or the cameraman!!

He has taken some pics on his phone tho that may work. 

Sorry to go off topic!

It'd be weird if you didn't have hair around there, I wouldn't worry about it. I used to, but when I realised my boyfriend was regularly fucking me from behind and loving it, even kinda...spreading the damn thing, I just relaxed. If it makes you uncomfortable, head to the salon, but rest assured, you aren't the only one with hair down there.

If anyone is really worried they can e-mail me a piccie & I'll have a DAMN good look!

wibblywobblyweb.i'madirtyoldman.co.ck

It's all in the best possible taste....

Haha. A charitable act, of course. The only pic I keep of my ass is one to make me feel better, because it looks fantastic in it. Lol.

I think its normal the have some hair back there, and as people have said, if your really worried about it got get it waxed, or even more fun, have a kinky shaving session with your OH.  Its more fun than it sounds!

 I have my bum waxed when i go to the waxer, my man pointed it out that i had hair there once and i had it taken off the next day! Its a little painful and embarrassing when asking the waxer to go a bit further down but it makes me feel much more confident!

Relax its all about what you guys want!I keep shaving my bum but my gf doesn't. She enjoys mine as it is hairless and i enjoy hers. You can try to wax it and see if he likes it more but the thing is that you can make it like a kinky game and shave together. I believe that every bum has its own beauty as it is and you should both enjoy it!