• Pussy Pumping Advice for a beginner!

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    Mr&MrsGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all,
    Have just purchased the Doc Johnson Pussy Pump as its a real fantasy/fetish of mine to see my wifes pussy engorged ans pumped up and then perform oral on her.
    She knows Ive got a new toy for her but she doesnt know its a pump, although I have hinted recently that I was going to get one, at first she was not keen but she has slowly changed her mind providing she can use a penis pump on me!

    Anyway, I plan to use the pump on her on friday whilsy she is tied up, blindfolded, gagged etc, I tried the pump out on my thigh to see how hard the suction was and it certainly creates a tight vacuum!
    I dont want to hurt her ans put her off using it by having a bad 1st experience.
    Has anyone used one and can anyone reccomend any tactics? Slow small pumps first etc?

    Thanks in advance for any tips/advice!!

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    GothicXIII [sign in to see picture]
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    I would say trying it while she is tied up, blindfolded and gagged for the first time isnt a good idea, its a toy that takes a lot of time to get a good effect and the suction is very much so personal preference so its the kinda toy that your going to have to take slow and work with before you get good results.

    Lube up the rim of the cup, this will give a better tighter seal and aid the cup staying where u want it, secondly very slow pumps would be my advice, even half pumps are a good way to start, my OH says its a very different sensation to anything she has used before. No doubt you have seen videos and pictures of what the end result looks like but from our experience it can take between 30-60mins of pumping to get that level of enlargement. The bonus here is the pay off though, with all of the extra blood flowing down there anything from the smallest touch will send her wiled.

    Good Luck with it :)

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    Mr&MrsGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the advice, might rethink the restraints until after a few sessions with the pump!

    When I tried it on my leg, it didnt hurt but felt uncomfortable initially, I then released the air and repumped to where I was before which then felt fine.
    Obviously its gonna be on her genitals so dont wanna hurt or bruise her.

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    GothicXIII [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh and clean shaven is a big help, no hairs to trap or get in the way :)

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    Mr&MrsGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    And that is relevant to my post because?
    Couldnt care if my postie knew I was ordering stuff from LH,
    They dont know whats in the parcel!!

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    It will be deleted soon I guess.

    Anyway to answer your question, (On the pumping advice) it isnt so much small pumps, its how fast you release the bulb that causes the suction to be slower or faster (Did that make sense) So you can squeeze the bulb all the way if you so wish and just slowly release it until she says ok holddddd" It is the releasing that causes the pumping effect rather than the squeezing. I also agree on using the lube to really help create a good seal. being shaved also helps but isnt a must.

    I found that just holding at certain points until the sensations died down a bit then I could go a bit further and a bit further. Did you get one with the quick release button? I think it adds to the experience and the sensations if you deflate it entirely every now and then, take it off, a little rub or tease and then put it back on etc..Its all nice! :D

    As for hurting her, watch her reactions, when she starts breathing heavier or squirming a bit more that is an indication that you are reaching the uncomfortable stage. To be fair we enjoy this anyway. (BDSM play) but it can get too intense if you rush it. Ask her to tell you when it is getting too much, and then do as my guy does and go for a littlleeeeee more....lol ok maybe not but, enjoy! It is great fun

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    Mr&MrsGrey [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for that great advice.
    Shes always been a bit reserved until we try it the 1st time, anal play was a no no originally but now she loves it and has even worn her butt plug out in public!!

    From a womans perspective, what does the 1st initial suction feel like?
    I dont want her to say no straight away before continuing. Is it pleasurable feeling instantly? Does the pumping actually give you pleasure or is the sensitivity afterwards??

    Thanks

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    A disgruntled purchaser from Lh. He bought an item that wasn't actually a girlfriend but I think that was what he was expecting and now he is blaming Lh.

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    hmmm ok how to describe it?

    Well first of all you may find at the very start, getting it into a good position and getting initial suction could be a bit fiddly. I would say, aim to have the top of the cup sat on the mound, just above her clit, maybe an inch or less above the top of her clit. If you go any higher up, any movements from the hips tend to cause the mound to move too much and the suction breaks. If you have it positioned here but the bottom of the cup goes over or close to her anus you may find you need a different cup ( I went through three different pussy pumps before I found the perfect size, it was like goldilocks and the three pumps, but anyway...) If you have a larger cup that does suck her bottom this can cause you to not get full benefit from the pump, because, that hurts!

    Anyway on to the first pump....The best thing to do is only squeeze the bulb half way depressed, and try positioning and release slightly, if you see everything starting to suck into the cup then success, if not keep figeting around a milimetre here or there until you get that happening. Also I would advise you to push on it a little. Not much but give it a little push and wiggle against her pussy, it just helps to create than initial suction if everything is nicely moved inside. 

    The first suction feels nice/strange/horny at the same time. You start to feel the pressure sensation of your lips being sucked, and even the first suction using a pussy pump is more intense than a guy just sucking with his mouth. I think because it is spread over the whole entire area and every part that is inside the cup feels this suction. One of the nicest parts about the first suction is that I can feel it most on my clit. It feels like it would if someone was gently sucking there and it makes me horny. I would adivse, after the first pump, to stop for a minute, just to allow her to feel her clit get hard and feel that unique sensation and watch her squirm a little with pleasure (At this point it shouldnt be uncomfortable, so it will feel mmm) However, over time, once she has been taken to her limit and held it, then release it a little, then pump again and you will find she can go a little further. Make sure you do release it every so often, as it feels amazing when you start again! and you wont lose any of the benefits you already achieved. Plus, constant, constant suction can just be too much....play around.

    After the first pump it starts to feel more intense, I guess I can only imagine it would be a similar experience to using a penis pump, so if you can imagine how one of those would feel, you might be able to put yourself into her shoes as to how it is feeling. I can tell you that with my pump, I can only get between 2 to 4 ish, more pumps, after the first one, before I am at that stage where it is very intense and I need to stop and hold it there for a little while (30 secs/minute) The sensation is intense, it is pleasureable. (Constant suction on your clit, the naughtiness of it all etc) but also, uncomfortable (Think lovebite, you know that hard suction sensation?) but it is strange because it feels...nice. Even though it is slightly uncomfortable. Its hard to explain I guess. For me personally, I like to be taken to the point where I am panting or squirming because it is intensely nice, but hurting. Thats just me though. Bit of a masochist and have a D/s relationship where we like playing those kinda games. 

    In my experience you need to be doing this for prolonged amount of time (30+ minutes) to start getting a pumped up pussy kind of look. And with standard pumps like you can buy from Lovehoney, you wont get that dramatically hugeeee look that you see in porn. (Seriously I think they have some kind of machine to get them looking THAT) huge. But you will see a reasonable difference, at least double the usual size if you do it for a while and keep pushing her to that point where she is justttttt at the edge of it becoming a bit too much. Does that make sense?

    And as for after .... Once you have finished playing and remove the pump, this is when you experience the benefits. Everything is sooooo sensitive. try gently, gently running your tongue over her lips first, avoid the clit at first and play/lick around it...It feels amazing really, you feel so sensitive that it has potential to make me orgasm just through that. be gentler than your usual technique would be my advise because of how much more sensitive the whole area is. Light teasy touches should have her right where you want her.

    Ok....I know what I am doing tonight now! lol :D Update us. Cant wait to hear how you got on x

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    Fluffbags sums it up perfectly :)

    Its not a fast toy like using a vibe, its something that takes more time and dedication to get it right but once u master it its awesome fun!

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    Many thanks Fluffbags for the advice!

    Cant wait to try it on her!! Will definately let you know how we get on!

    Will leave the restraining/gagging to we a bit more experienced with it!!

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    yeh thats a good idea, at least then she can communicate with you and give you feedback. Bit difficult with a gag in, not impossible like but...lol

    (Now I am imagining...ok hunni, one kick in the balls for ouch....two kicks for stop! lol)

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    Lol....

    Cant wait now!!

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    This is the first time i've heard of these,, will have to get one for the OH

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    This made a very interesting read, that exact same product is on my wishlist but was unsure as to whether I would purchase it! After reading this thread I'm definitely going to purchase! Thanks! 

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    Just like you Mr Grey, the thought of using one of these on my wife was a major fetish/fantasy of mine. I knew though that if I suggested buying one and explained it to her she'd be a bit unsure, possibly even put off by the look of it. So I bought one as a surprise and introduced it to our bedroom play with my OH tied up and blindfolded. It's best that you leave the gag off the first few times you use it as communication is very important with this toy; the slightest pump too soon can cross the line into discomfort.

    The very first time we used it wasn't much of a success; the totally new sensation was a bit too much for her and she found it more uncomfortable than pleasurable and afterwards commented that it looked more like an oxygen mask than a sex toy. I perservered with it though and we're both very pleased I did; now when my wife is tied up she begs me to use it on her! She loves the increased sensation when her genitals are really swollen.

    We find that small pumping actions work best; my OH lets me know when to stop pumping, then I hold it for a while, before releasing and starting again; each time pumping a little bit more as her genitals get more swollen. After a few uses you can achieve the look you may have seen in porn pics/vids with about 20-30 minutes of pumping. We have always found that her genitals are right back to their normal size the following morning, with no pain, redness, bruising etc at all.

    As someone mentioned earlier; being clean shaven helps the pump to keep a vacuum seal against the skin, and I'd agree with the recommendation that you push gently against the pump until you have a good seal.

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    im ashamed to say id never heard of one until joining this forum .. i would LOVE to give one a go now though after reading the advice etc !

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    I've just come across this thread and it's perfect timing as we are waiting for one to be delivered.

    I must admit that after initially thinking yeh go buy me one hubby, I am not feeling a bit apprehensive about it - don't know why but am.

    This has made interesting reading and I will report back as to how it went (when it turns up!)

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    We're just going to order one to but cant decide between the doc johnson one or the fetish fantasy. Both look good just not sure about the size still i'm happy to keep trying till we find the right one :)

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    I've just ordered the Doc Johnson one - we were exactly the same about which one to order, it ended up with hubby measuring me to see what the cup size should be

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