• Beginners Basic Oriental Ben Wa Jiggle Balls

    Smokeyj [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all,
    I just got my first ever set of jiggle balls/exercisers (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=232). I have found that inserting the first ball and leaving the second one 'resting' in the opening the least uncomfortable.

    Now I need some advice please.
    1. They don't seem to stay in place, they move up/deeper in.
    2. I can not wear them for longer than an hour or two then they start to hurt.
    3. Once I have taken them out, I feel tender inside.
    4. The sensation I get while wearing them, I would not particularly describe as pleasurable.

    Am I using them wrong? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Hourglass [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Smokeyj,

    I cant offer any advice sorry but I have had the same problem, I just had some http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25652 I have only worn them for an hour today, I thought they looked quite big when i first saw them but with a bit of lube they went in quite easily but I have to say it wasn't painfull but not really pleasurable either and after a while i had to take them out and felt tender after too.

    Maybe it is somethig you just need to get used to and if nothing else it made me think of squeezing my muscles and at least doing my exercises...............

    MissTerryCleavage [sign in to see picture]
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    Lh guide here http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/better-sex-for-her/buyers-guide/how-to-use-ben-wa-balls/

    Both balls should be inserted and you leave the string 'dangling', kinda like how a tampon sits. If it's your first time using balls, 2hrs is perhaps a bit much given it's a muscle & much like if you do too much at the gym, it's gonna hurt when over-used...

    Build up slowly & then emjoy the benefits of much stronger muscles ;)

    Hourglass [sign in to see picture]
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    smokeyj, how are you getting on with your jiggle balls? any better? i have found that it took me a couple of days to get used to mine and what felt like a weird not really pleasuarable experience has now gone and I am begining to enjoy / feel the benefits ;-)

    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
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    both balls should go inside. If you are not comfortable with them, maybe think about why it is. Is it the size? Maybe it would be easier for you to be bit aroused before trying them in. If you are still not comfortable, maybe you can consider a single ball option.

    As for only being able to keep them in for an hour or 2, that is normal. I was like that in the beginning too. It is muscle exercise, so yes, it can hurt if you overdo it. Personal advice would be start with shorter period of times and slowly go up. Or go for lighter versions.

    As for being tender, you mean as being uncomfortably tender or just more aware of sensations? The other is normal, I am more sensitive inside after using them.

    And for the not pleasurable, does it actually hurt to have them inside you?

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