• Going to explore something new! advice needed please.

    1357226606
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    Me & the hubby are want to try out new things in the bedroom, we have tried but plugs, but i really want to get a strap on the thought of this really turns me on! (hubby is up for it too) i have read reviews but still do not know which to buy,

    i'm torn between http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8569

    and this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16058

    Please help your knowledge would be great..

    1357226756
    ZombieCpl [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 315
    • Joined: 19 Nov 2010

    I have the first on. Its ok but a bit cheaply made and can cut in and while the dildos are great i cant reccommend jelly, because it can burn your skin, melt and lots of other things

    1357227340
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    ZombieCpl wrote:

    I have the first on. Its ok but a bit cheaply made and can cut in and while the dildos are great i cant reccommend jelly, because it can burn your skin, melt and lots of other things

    So do you think i would be better off with a more expensive one? any ideas?

    1357228073
    Scarlet Couple [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 146
    • Joined: 6 Jul 2011

    let us know how you get on, because its on our list of things to do in 2013 too :)

    1357228269
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    Scarlet Couple wrote:

    let us know how you get on, because its on our list of things to do in 2013 too :)

    I will do

    1357229438
    scotman [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 127
    • Joined: 28 May 2009

    see my revue on sport sheet harness but get different dildo, it's a bit pricy but worth it in the end good luck and enjoy yourselves

    1357229877
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    scotman wrote:

    see my revue on sport sheet harness but get different dildo, it's a bit pricy but worth it in the end good luck and enjoy yourselves

    So you uses your own dildo's with this, i think all of mine are too big for my OH. Im now looking at the Doc johnson Vac-u-lock range cos you can buy extra dildos.

    1357230092
    scotman [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 127
    • Joined: 28 May 2009

    With the sport sheet harness you can choose from a number of dildos as they have different sized rings so the worlds your oyster

    1357237861
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    Well after a lot of looking i have ordered

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971

    and i have treated myself too http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12689

    I am so excited, roll on next week.

    1357239702
    yummy mummy91 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 378
    • Joined: 19 Dec 2011

    i have the strap on youve ordered an i personal think its great i looked at getting the 1st 2 you linked but the found the one youve ordered it not to big or too firm i think its just right

    have fun

    1357240223
    Ms HKM [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 395
    • Joined: 25 May 2011

    I vote any Doc Johnson product... this is great for sensations and isn't penis shaped!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13502

    1357240762
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    Ms HKM wrote:

    I vote any Doc Johnson product... this is great for sensations and isn't penis shaped!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13502

    I look at this one but my OH didnt like the look of it.. Im so excited i can not wait, i cant belive ive got myself a Leo product (even if its one of the cheaper ones) What a great way to start 2013.

    1357240878
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    yummy mummy91 wrote:

    i have the strap on youve ordered an i personal think its great i looked at getting the 1st 2 you linked but the found the one youve ordered it not to big or too firm i think its just right

    have fun

    After having a good look, i thought the first 2 i linked looked cheap. im glad you like the one i have ordered i hope we (me and my OH) have a lot of fun with it.

    1357241023
    scotman [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 127
    • Joined: 28 May 2009

    Hope you OH have some fun times, remember to start slowly don't want to frighten OH straight away LOL

    1357241268
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)

    1357241626
    Dastity [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 54
    • Joined: 12 Dec 2012

    amiss wrote:

    I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)

    Oh have fun, this is also on our list for 2013. We've played similar, but stopped short of a full strap-on...

    ... now if you really want to heighten the D/S play element consider buying a cheap bit-gag for him; "Something to bite down on!" etc etc. If you do go with a gag just be sure to switch from a safe word to something like three taps on the headboard, or something you'll notice once in the moment.

    1357241727
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    Dastity wrote:

    amiss wrote:

    I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)

    Oh have fun, this is also on our list for 2013. We've played similar, but stopped short of a full strap-on...

    ... now if you really want to heighten the D/S play element consider buying a cheap bit-gag for him; "Something to bite down on!" etc etc. If you do go with a gag just be sure to switch from a safe word to something like three taps on the headboard, or something you'll notice once in the moment.

    I like your thinking.

    1357243184
    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 744
    • Joined: 27 Sep 2007

    amiss wrote:

    I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)

    It is a really good idea to let him 'thread himself' onto the dildo and dictate the rate of penetration rather than you driving it in. This way the pain can be completely avoided. Even after years of experience I find that taking the entry too fast can hurt like hell and it sets the whole session off on the wrong track.

    The first time my wife pegged me was with one of these:-

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9047

    which offers a nice easy ,er, introduction to the subject however, it felt as if she had impaled me with a small submarine.

    Patience, a sense of humour, and lube are the key requirements - have fun!

    1357245352
    amiss [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 152
    • Joined: 1 Sep 2012

    Gyrator53 wrote:

    amiss wrote:

    I will try ( now its my turn to say relax it will stop hurting in abit lol)

    It is a really good idea to let him 'thread himself' onto the dildo and dictate the rate of penetration rather than you driving it in. This way the pain can be completely avoided. Even after years of experience I find that taking the entry too fast can hurt like hell and it sets the whole session off on the wrong track.

    The first time my wife pegged me was with one of these:-

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9047

    which offers a nice easy ,er, introduction to the subject however, it felt as if she had impaled me with a small submarine.

    Patience, a sense of humour, and lube are the key requirements - have fun!

    Thanks, for the advice, i have used butt plugs, slim dildos & a couple of fingers on him, so he is not a complete novice. But i will be gentle with him so we both enjoy ourselfs.

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.