• Sex toy "virgin"

    O'rookie [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all!

    Like the title says, I'm a sex toy virgin - I've never used them before. In fact, I'm pretty new to masturbation despite being 22 years old! I identified as asexual for several years, so... Now I have had sex I know I'm definitely not, but have never had a "proper" orgasm, and I figure getting to know myself is a good way of fixing that.

    I'd like to experiment with sex toys but I'm not really sure where to start! There are so many, and I'm a bit baffled. Do any of you have suggestions for a good "beginner" toy? Nothing too extreme or elaborate... I respond well to clitoral stimulation so was thinking maybe a clitoral vibrator?

    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi welcome

    Have you had a look at a bullet ? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042

    To start off with x

    morefun [sign in to see picture]
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    Theres finger rings on deal of the day that are cheap enough for the experimental stage, the vibrations arent too weak nor overpowering either and are good for clit stimulation. There are a number of cheap bullets and stuff too which are good to experiment with until you figure out what sort of thing you like best. Personally I dont get on with the bullets but the finger rings help me on my way.

    My favorite toy I have so far is my rabbit (not from here) which wasn't exactly cheap, it was my first toy and I hated it the first time I used it so I thought it was a total waste of money, I gave it a few more chances before I started to like it but thats why I think its best to try a few of the cheaper toys first rather than one more expensive one to see what suits you.

    PinkPolkaDot [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi :)

    Like morefun said the finger ring is a great place to start http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14878 or maybe go for a vibrator http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25883 this is perfect for a beginner as it's small enough to be used as a clitoral stimulator but not too small and can be used internally as well so you can work out which you like more - internal or external stimulation. And for £2.99 you can't go wrong.

    The Tracey Cox bullet KF suggested might be too powerful for you so I'd start off with something weaker first, then move onto more powerful vibes if you find the beginners ones don't quite do it.

    If you need any more help don't hesitate to ask, we're all nice and friendly here :) xx

    Tiberius [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there & wellcome.

    A nice starter would be something like http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21243

    Don't rush in, take time to read the reviews or as you've already done ask the forum. Good luck and let us know how you get on?

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