• 'Non strap-on' strap-on for the nervous

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    Belle_djour [sign in to see picture]
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    Guys, this type of toy is what we want

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16277

    However, we (or more to the point He!) is unable to take something of that size, despite repeated spirited attempts. We have one (not that particular one, just one like it) and the thickness is just too much. No amount of lube or relaxing can cure it, it is too painful for him.

    We don't like traditional strap-ons, because off all the hassles with the straps, plus the concept of these toys is better, but no matter how hard we look, no-one does a 'size wimp' that has a small dildo.

    Can anyone point us to where they do?

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    try a small hollow strap on exstention only 7 inches lond and soft and easy to wear

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    TTurtle [sign in to see picture]
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    I would try starting with smaller non strap on toys such as butt plugs and anal dildos and probers and working your way up..I've had the toy you've got used on me and trust me its well worth the persistence

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    Belle_djour [sign in to see picture]
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    We've tried the 'progressive' route, but it gets to a point where he can't do anything bigger. As mentioned, he does try, but it's obviously crossing the threshold from pleasure to pain.

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    The Fun Factory Share XS is pretty small.

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    5mil [sign in to see picture]
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    How about the Feeldoe slim? http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1653

    It's a bit thinner than the Toy Joy.

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    JayAndKitty [sign in to see picture]
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    Try distracting him from the pain? a reach around maybe?

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    Ninja [sign in to see picture]
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    I find this way to small, and the veins are rather painful.

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    Mr. Loverman [sign in to see picture]
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    I have this toy and looking to buy the red vibrating one, it brings great pleasure, i started of with a small butt plug, then tried a probe then thought bugger it, lubed it up and let my OH have her way, she didnt disappoint, he wont want anything else after he has tried it unless its a bigger one.

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    Mr. Loverman [sign in to see picture]
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    I have this toy and looking to buy the red vibrating one, it brings great pleasure, i started of with a small butt plug, then tried a probe then thought bugger it, lubed it up and let my OH have her way, she didnt disappoint, he wont want anything else after he has tried it unless its a bigger one.

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    Milky [sign in to see picture]
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    We have the 'Toy Joy' one that you were considering, and it was a great starter strap on, as it was easy to work up from just the thinner head to the whole thickness. If he's really struggling with the size, maybe he could spend some time wearing a smaller butt plug throughout the day before you use your strap on? x

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