• Prostate Massager

    xxmidlandsboy1979xx [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, I'm looking for help,

    I've bought myself a prostate massager, Now this is quite new to me, How do I know I'm hitting the right spot or is it obvious??

    If anybody would be good enough to give me a guide or some tips on use then that would be great.

    Many Thanks

    Ms HKM [sign in to see picture]
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    Massagers are great but they're no substitute for a finger.

    First, to find your prostate, lube up a finger and have a feel around. It's on the front wall (toward your belly button). With the other hand, masturbate. At the point of ejaculation you'll feel your prostate harden - ta-daa, one prostate located.

    This will locate it for you, ready to use your toy. Don't be too rough, it can be a little uncomfortable but mixed with manual masturbation you should have loads of fun. Be patient. Takes a while!

    U.S.Huney_Bunz [sign in to see picture]
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    MS HKM,

    Thanks for the instructions, you just helped me too...I will try this on my husband lol! What's the best prostate massager?

    Ms HKM [sign in to see picture]
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    There are lots of good ones on the market but I really don't think it substitutes for a finger!

    Every guy is different and it depends if you're using the massager with a partner or alone. For instance, the prostate is about two inches into the anus. A guy alone might struggle so something like this is really handy;


    However if it's a partner doing the playing then just about any massager is doable. Vibrating ones offer something your fingers can't, like this one;


    But seriously, fingers are much better. Put a latex glove/condom on to lessen friction and lots of lube. Massage firmly - about the same pressure you'd use to scoop mash potato with your finger! Some like it harder but it can agitate the prostate so take it easy to begin with.

    U.S.Huney_Bunz [sign in to see picture]
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    Ms HKM,


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    For me prostate massagers proved a waste of time and money (other than they were the first things that I used to experiment with and am very grateful that they led to other activities that were more fun).

    I agree with others, far more fun having your OH massage you with a finger or toy.

    5mil [sign in to see picture]
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    I think it varies tremendously between individuals. I have had good success with prostate massagers, although not the Aneros range that LH stock, which don't seem to be quite the right size for me.

    The idea of a prostate massager is that by clenching your PC muscles, you alternately stimulate the prostate internally and the perineum externally. When you get the combination right it leads to fantastic orgasms. I found that the Aneros one I bought (the Progasm) didn't do much on the perineum.

    My favourite is the Nexus Excel, which is from a range that LH don't stock sadly. Have a look: http://www.pleasure2me.co.uk/

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