• My wife said surprise me! What should I buy her/us?

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    ToneEQ [sign in to see picture]
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    The OH is willing to try something new (yes!). She's always said no to toys in the past but after I bought a vibrating cock ring (disposable basics) along with a ball gag she seems to have changed her mind...

    So, suggestions please for a new toy for her, or for us, to play with. Budget of £50 in mind but if you have 2 cheaper suggestions I'm still listening.

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    what to start with :D you could always go for the wand which ive heard is a brilliant toy.
    or this is in the sale; http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875 :) I will have a look and get back x

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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25661

    if she enjoyed the ball gag and wants a surprise then prehaps;
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19289and buy a vibrator to tease with during?
    xx

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    ToneEQ [sign in to see picture]
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    Restraints, bars, whips and blindfolds are fully stocked in our house, but the other suggestions look like a good place to start. Anyone else?

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    something new you've been wanting to try but havebeen too afraid to ask eg anal.

    glas dildoes and magic wands are lovely too though.

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    G spot vib ........ the best orgasm ever

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    Nymeria [sign in to see picture]
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    I think this is a staple bundle pack to start you off in your exploration of sex toys and amazing value- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875 as others have posted. There's just so much you can do with what's there including all the essentials like lube.

    Other amazing picks are these:- Twin glass toys! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875 One usually costs £20+ so that's a bargain.

    One of the things that I really enjoyed was having my partner use a toy on me. For some reason I found that an amazing experience and turn on. Something like this:- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16727 There are some cheap satisfying vibes out there too including this- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1738

    Hope that helps and let us know what you choose. =)

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    rag doll wrote:

    something new you've been wanting to try but havebeen too afraid to ask eg anal.

    glas dildoes and magic wands are lovely too though.

    whats so special about glass ones?

    I got my GF a 'normal' vibe. She never asked for it and she never uses it.

    Are some girls just not into toys?

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    Syd wrote:

    rag doll wrote:

    something new you've been wanting to try but havebeen too afraid to ask eg anal.

    glas dildoes and magic wands are lovely too though.

    whats so special about glass ones?

    I got my GF a 'normal' vibe. She never asked for it and she never uses it.

    Are some girls just not into toys?

    Maybe she's just a little intimidated by it. You should incorporate it into your play together.

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    Syd wrote:

    whats so special about glass ones?

    I got my GF a 'normal' vibe. She never asked for it and she never uses it.

    Are some girls just not into toys?

    I find glass so much more sensual. It feels amazing and has a massaging effect. Also the glass is great for temperature play so you could use it warm or cool.

    And I think there are people that can just not be into toys but a lot of people warm to the idea and get into it after.

    You could try using something like a vibrating cockring to get her a feel for what toys can offer via clitoral stimulation. It's a great way to incorporate it as a couple, as sub-kitten suggested, without it being too intimidating.

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    Nymeria wrote:

    Syd wrote:

    whats so special about glass ones?

    I got my GF a 'normal' vibe. She never asked for it and she never uses it.

    Are some girls just not into toys?


    You could try using something like a vibrating cockring to get her a feel for what toys can offer via clitoral stimulation. It's a great way to incorporate it as a couple, as sub-kitten suggested, without it being too intimidating.

    We tried a vibrating cock ring, worked quite well for both of us, especially for her when on top. She was always against using toys but that opened her mind to the idea of bigger and better, hence my post!

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    Thanks for all the suggestions, anal is a no-go (for now, I'll talk her round one day). I may go for a waterproof g-spot vibe, will take a browse through the comments and reviews. Start off with a basic one and if she/we like we will get another in the future.

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    The best we've bought to date, the wand...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21234

    It does not dissapoint!

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    Nymeria wrote:

    Syd wrote:

    whats so special about glass ones?

    I got my GF a 'normal' vibe. She never asked for it and she never uses it.

    Are some girls just not into toys?

    I find glass so much more sensual. It feels amazing and has a massaging effect. Also the glass is great for temperature play so you could use it warm or cool.

    And I think there are people that can just not be into toys but a lot of people warm to the idea and get into it after.

    You could try using something like a vibrating cockring to get her a feel for what toys can offer via clitoral stimulation. It's a great way to incorporate it as a couple, as sub-kitten suggested, without it being too intimidating.

    Already have a cock ring. We both like it.

    The vibrator just seems to do nothing for her.

    She wants the real thing straight away. I just thought the vibrator might prolong things a bit for her.

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    Syd [sign in to see picture]
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    Not complaing. Maybe its a crap vibe. I know very little about them

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    Syd wrote:

    Already have a cock ring. We both like it.

    The vibrator just seems to do nothing for her.

    She wants the real thing straight away. I just thought the vibrator might prolong things a bit for her.

    I prefer the real thing too and internal vibration don't do much for me either but glass feels different internally. Also, I love the use of vibes via a love egg or bullet on other areas like clitoris and nipples etc. Something like this feels great- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9670 Cheap and cheerful all the way.

    Which cockring do you have by the way? Our favourite is the http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14882 Amazingly powerful and you can detach the bullets too. =)

    By the way, good luck ToneEQ, hope you find something suitable.

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    Nymeria wrote:

    Syd wrote:

    Already have a cock ring. We both like it.

    The vibrator just seems to do nothing for her.

    She wants the real thing straight away. I just thought the vibrator might prolong things a bit for her.

    I prefer the real thing too and internal vibration don't do much for me either but glass feels different internally. Also, I love the use of vibes via a love egg or bullet on other areas like clitoris and nipples etc. Something like this feels great- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9670 Cheap and cheerful all the way.

    Which cockring do you have by the way? Our favourite is the http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14882 Amazingly powerful and you can detach the bullets too. =)

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18919

    This one. Tried a 1.99n disposable one first then got this one.

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    You should try the one I linked then, it's really good.

    You may want to try the love egg too, you can place it between you and the controller can be adjusted via a wheel to whatever strength you want in vibrations. Best feeling ever.

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    I'm flattered she doesn't feel she needs a vibe. Was just wondering I may have bought a crap one.

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    Nymeria wrote:

    You should try the one I linked then, it's really good.

    You may want to try the love egg too, you can place it between you and the controller can be adjusted via a wheel to whatever strength you want in vibrations. Best feeling ever.

    That one looks a lot chunkier.

    Not sure about wires and wheels. May burst out laughing!

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    Syd wrote:

    Not sure about wires and wheels. May burst out laughing!

    Hey, I'm one those weird people that like being tickled lmao so that isn't as bad as it sounds!

    The wires can be a bit annoying but the pros outweighs the cons! And the wheel lol, let's just say it feels a LOT better than it looks and more importantly, how I described it lol.

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