• My SO suffers from tennis-elbow, making handjobs painful for her. Any toys which might help?

    1343153830
    Sleepy Pete [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 24 Jul 2012

    My SO sometimes treats me to a handjob, which is something I really enjoy. Unfortunately, her tennis elbow has flared up again, and going on previous experience it may take a few months to settle down. I don't want her to aggravate it simply to give me fun, but I will really miss these occasional treats. :(

    I was wondering if there's a toy out there that my SO could use on me without hurting her. She says it's the gentle grip she uses which causes the problem; if she could grip firmly, she believes it wouldn't hurt.

    We're happy to experiment, but if anyone has recommendations for toys they think might suit, we'd both be grateful.

    1343154358
    Nymeria [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1236
    • Joined: 26 Mar 2010

    Hm, you could try any sleeves/strokers with lube- this may make it easier although I'm not sure if it would alleviate her pain. Most of these toys still require that core movement of a handjob, as for the grip- this is where it is more flexible as there are toys that are tight/loose/textured enough for you not to use much effort.

    You could invest in one of these toys and try with her.and also maybe do it yourself with her watching etc.

    I'd suggest this beginners pack as it's amazing value with a handy bottle of lube as well as a textured stroker. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875

    If you're looking for something a bit more firm to hold on to, something like this may be more suitable. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19122 It is more compact and a little more discreet or the full size fleshlight - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=891

    1343158836
    fistinglover69 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 628
    • Joined: 25 Aug 2011

    hmmm i find that strokers are harder to use than my hand as theyre all lubey so you need to go harder to create more friction. maybe get something that makes you more sensitive so you finish quicker? or get her to just hold the stroker and you could thrust into it?

    1343160729
    Sleepy Pete [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 24 Jul 2012

    Nymeria, fistnglover69,

    Thank you for your suggestions. A stroker might work--I think my SO would find a fake vagina a bit offputting, but clear or coloured silicone is less likely to gross her out--we're new to this "toys thing"....

    The idea of her simply holding the stroker, and me thrusting into it, is an interesting one--not quite a handjob, but in terms of intimacy, not far off. Perhaps movement from both of us? We'll give it a try.

    Any oher thoughts still welcome...

    1343162351
    Sleepy Pete [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 3
    • Joined: 24 Jul 2012

    Ork,

    Thanks for the recommendation for the Tracey Cox strokers -- I think my lady will be quite happy with one of those. They don't look at all threatening.

    SO = Significant Other.


    1343167095
    Nymeria [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1236
    • Joined: 26 Mar 2010

    One of the best little toys to start with that are really non-threatening is probably the Tenga love egg. They can even be described as kind of cute lol.

    Tenga Egg love heart egg- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24048

    I'd still like to recommend the starter kit that has included both a coloured silicone double-textured stroker/sleeve and lube (as well as some other handy beginner couple toys). http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22875

    Here's a quick buying guide to help with all the new ideas with reference to male toys- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/buyers-guide/comprehensive-guide-male-sex-toys/

    Good luck. =)

    I tend to look at the internal structure rather than the external design. I find the "realistic" designs kind of pointless personally (my partner thinks so too).

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.