Was for me on the first time - even on the second, third and fourth time! Jeez... I know she was more sexually free than me, but I simply didn't ask for it or want it. She shouldn't assume I'd be fine with it... Blargh, that's my grumbly ramble out.
Anyway, yeah, I agree with the whole thing about sex being part of our culture. How I long to be completely alone and for no one to hear the vibrations or the sounds of suction. It is quite awkward...