strap on sex

I keep hinting to my wife i would like her to do me with a strap on. she is not turned on by it and isn't keen. Frustrating. Any tips?

do you watch porn together

Anything she would like you to do that you can offer in trade?

 well if she is not keen then you cant force her. just talk to her about it and tell her what a turn on it would be for you, hopefully she can see that and will try it out

Do you have anal sex with her? If not, try to and tell her that you will let her try first on you. Start slow and don't expect to have her wear a strp-on in an hour. This will take time and can take weeks/months. Let her start touching your ass while she gives head or something. Make sure she is not affraid to touch your ass, so trim/shave down there. If you already have anal sex then you just have to say that it turns you on if she does anal on you. Also now you have to start slow, because if you want it up the ass it doesn't mean she wants it also. It is a matter of give and recieve ;)

I think most girls must enjoy doing their men with a strap-on, explain to her that you want to try it and if she doesn't like the sound of it at first, guarantee her that it will make her laugh. She will laugh, and so should you, she's the one doing the fucking, so laugh and enjoy! I reviewed a beginners strap-on on my profile, have a look, it's cheap and is a great starting point, and probably more importantly it isn't offensive looking. Enjoy!

If she is not turned on by this I guess you may have to leave it in the land of fantasy...If she feels any pressue to do this it will only turn her off even more..Maybe you could  encourage her to touch your ass and take it from.

make a  sex machine and do yourself,i have

Have ye engaged in any anal play (on you) at all?  I know when my guy mentioned it, I wasn't very gung-ho; not because I was "turned off" the idea, but because I was terrified about doing it wrong and looking foolish, or even injuring him!  Even a couple of times playing with fingers or a dildo made me feel a lot more comfortable with how penetrating soemone else works, so I was much more keen (although still pretty scared). 

If she's still not even interested in trying that level, try and see if she'll say why.  Many people have concerns ranging from hygeine to "turning" their guy gay, and most of them can be addressed with some education and compromise.

If it's that she just genuinely isn't interested, maybe she'd be willing to try it as something for you, especially if that gives her free reign to ask for something selfish in return.  Hopefully she'l be at least willing to try it once as a favour, and maybe get more into it from that, or at least be ok enough to do it now and then because she knows you'll like it.  And if not, then at least ye tried.

"turning" their guy gay,
lets be honest,most guys who want anal are either bi or curious

no wer'e not we just love women to fuck us

thanks for all the advice. She does use her fingers on me and dildos, I guess I should be satisfied with that but it is fun to experiment!!!

baldybits2 wrote:
lets be honest,most guys who want anal are either bi or curious

By this same wonderful logic you also get that all women who like oral are lesbian and all guys who like taking their GF from behind are really closet sheep-$h@ggers  8-)=

baldybits2 wrote:

"turning" their guy gay,
lets be honest,most guys who want anal are either bi or curious

You are so very wrong.. you are either boardering on bi or gay yourself by making that statement or you clearly have no clue and probably just a teen with no experience!

BashfulBabe wrote:

Have ye engaged in any anal play (on you) at all?  I know when my guy mentioned it, I wasn't very gung-ho; not because I was "turned off" the idea, but because I was terrified about doing it wrong and looking foolish, or even injuring him!  Even a couple of times playing with fingers or a dildo made me feel a lot more comfortable with how penetrating soemone else works, so I was much more keen (although still pretty scared). 

If she's still not even interested in trying that level, try and see if she'll say why.  Many people have concerns ranging from hygeine to "turning" their guy gay, and most of them can be addressed with some education and compromise.

If it's that she just genuinely isn't interested, maybe she'd be willing to try it as something for you, especially if that gives her free reign to ask for something selfish in return.  Hopefully she'l be at least willing to try it once as a favour, and maybe get more into it from that, or at least be ok enough to do it now and then because she knows you'll like it.  And if not, then at least ye tried.

thanks Bashful

baldybits2 wrote:

"turning" their guy gay,
lets be honest,most guys who want anal are either bi or curious

How many times does it need to be said... It is the GENDER of the person you're fucking not the way you fuck that *could* be said to affect your sexuality (even then it's up to the person to decide).

News just in... straight men possess prostates.

mmm we know but women miss out yet again awwww lol

Dee_licious333 wrote:

baldybits2 wrote:

"turning" their guy gay,
lets be honest,most guys who want anal are either bi or curious

You are so very wrong.. you are either boardering on bi or gay yourself by making that statement or you clearly have no clue and probably just a teen with no experience!

dee,

sorry to offend,i am bi and im 38 with lots of experience,again sorry

mccoy wrote:

thanks for all the advice. She does use her fingers on me and dildos, I guess I should be satisfied with that but it is fun to experiment!!!

Don't feel bad for wanting more, it certainly is fun!  If she's happy enough with that level of play, then hopefully it's just a case of helping her get into it, or to see that it's worth a try at least.  Good luck! x

BashfulBabe wrote:

mccoy wrote:

thanks for all the advice. She does use her fingers on me and dildos, I guess I should be satisfied with that but it is fun to experiment!!!

Don't feel bad for wanting more, it certainly is fun!  If she's happy enough with that level of play, then hopefully it's just a case of helping her get into it, or to see that it's worth a try at least.  Good luck! x

Encouraging words, can't wait get back home tomorrow. Thanks x