Which strap on should we get?

Hi all,

Me and the BF have started getting into anal fun, he loves it, we've gone from beads to me using my dildo on him, so we decided to get a strap on, so we got this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14015 but we both found it too 'soft' i'm not really a fan of jelly toys anyway, and he wants something harder. 

But the problem is that i'm quite big, size 22-24 so I don't know what strap on to get next where the harness is going to fit me.  Preferable a double ended one, but would settle for a single for him!! Any recommendations?  Cheers!!

Hi there, me and the OH have just bought this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16971

At first I though it wasa bi hard but it's really nice and it doesn't take too long before its fully in me!

This isn't too flexible either as I can imagine that could be a problem when penetrating him, good luck in choosing anyway and keep us all posted
X

Thanks for your advice!!  I have now ordered the one you suggested.  It says it's very firm, but he loves my ceramic dildo so i'm sure he will like this.  Can't wait for it to arrive now LOL x

 thats great, i looking forward to reading your review on it! and enjoy

My god... the one you got originally looks so... orgasmic! Shame it isn't more rigid: I'm sure it would be absolutely divine!

The Adam and Eve harness set was the best one we've come across for starting out. You get two dildos, with the bigger of the two keeping me satisfied for a long time. The one you've gone with looks good, but I'll still vouch for the Adam and Eve set for a future purchase.

Have to agree with S&S.

Adam & Eves was one of our xmas pressies to ourselves and its great value with the 2 dildos.Will write a review on it when i get the time

We have the Sportsheets Blush harness (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8947). I think it's a good one, and the straps are adjustable up to 60" hip (apparently, though I can't vouch for that personally, it does have a lot of strap, on both the hip and thighs, so it should fit practically anyone). It's jock strap style, so your genitals are free for you to do whatever you want

Thanks for your advice!  It arrived, looks good, and we are hopefully going to try it over the next couple of days, so will let you know how we get on!  Does anyone have any ideas for a larger dildo that will fit this strap too?  I'm sure after a few times he's going to want a bigger one lol! x

Hmmm, I was also concerned about my size when it came to buing a strapon, so I went for this one in the end: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14753. It fits me perfectly fine. Check my review about this product.

Hi Missbbw we also have the strapon that M&A  said to buy my wife is also a bbw 22-24 and it fits her. We have also found that it fits other dildos as well and it does workkkkkkkkkkkkkk as they say have fun with it!

 im glad you found the advice helpful bucksfizz enjoy!

Sorry should have said dongs not dildos

I have Theo by spare parts.

There are two sizes, a which is 20 to 50 inches and b which is 35 - 65 inches.

I would highly recomend any spare parts products, their quality is amazing!

Theo is avaliable on here in size a http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18045 however for size b you will need their website or another. http://www.myspare.com/product/theo

Joque is another by them, it comes in the same two sizes, a and b. They are both avaliable on here. a http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18043 b or plus size http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18044

The Theo has a pouch which you put the dildo into but you can also place a vibrator inside it to give you stimulation. Alternatively, try a handsfree toy such as we vibe.

well he loved it!  we have been using it loads, and it really turns me on pegging him.  now he wants a bigger one! any ideas which dildo i could get to fit the strap we have?

thanks guys xxx

Hehe glad you both like it, my OH always wants something bigger once we get going x

So the harness you have has an interchangable O ring, so you should be able to fit ANY dildo in it by switching out the O ring.  The O ring on there is 1.75" so you can go up to that size without having to get a new O ring set.  The current dildo is 1.5".  So your next size up would be 1.75" or 1 5/8" (for a small size jump). 

Suggestions:

Tantus Cush O2 Twilight Realistic Dildo  Tantus Cush  (1.75")

Tantus P-Spot Silicone Anal Dildo  Tantus P Spot  (1.7")

Silicone is the safest material you can get, so I would aim for silicone dildos.  Tantus makes very high quality products.  The Cush is O2 dual density and feels amazing.  One of my husband's favorites is the Flurry, another O2 that's 1.5" diameter. 

I also second the Joque harness recommendation.  If you get another harness, that's one of the best ones you can get.

I can recommend the harnesses sold by Babes 'n Horny. They've also got some really beautiful dildos. On the expensive side though.

Kira wrote:

So the harness you have has an interchangable O ring, so you should be able to fit ANY dildo in it by switching out the O ring. 

Interchangable O-rings are awesome, means you can invest in a harness knowing you wont have to upgrade it as well if you end up wnating something bigger. However, revealing both my pedantry and size queeniness, I cannot find anywhere that sell o-rings bigger than 55mm diameter, so this is pretty much a limiting factor. In fact I might just go and start a thread and see if anyone can help me with this!

And I would definitely recommend a Tantus silicone dildo as Kira does, they are virtually all amazing. I would also recommend anything by Babes n Horny, they are also amazing.

Alex.