M & A wrote:
My OH likes toys but nothing that will cause too much pain and seeing her in pain would be a turn off for me
but i agree that practice makes perfect!
In my experience, big doesn't have to mean painful! My OH would never want to hurt me either (well, apart from the occasional spanking but that's not really pain is it?!) and I wouldn't like to feel pain down there, but as long as you go slowly and build up to it, I don't think stretching widthwise should hurt. I mean, it's designed to be stretchy - babies fit through there!!
But I'm with Ms G, length wise there's a decidedly finite capacity. Cervix bashing = yucky.
SS xx