• Anal Advice

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    KinkyKev [sign in to see picture]
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    Since splitting with my partner I haven't been able to find my anal beads and I am definitely missing dressing up in my lingerie and having my beads in my bum. So the question is: I haven't had toys up my bum for 6 months so what would people advise? Should I start off small and get my bum used to being full and open again? Or should I go for the kill lol? Just haven't gone this long before and don't want to injure myself.

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    ghostgirl [sign in to see picture]
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    hi kev i would start small and see how it goes, and use loads of quality lube

    xGGx

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    While it would be best to start small and work up However, if this isn't an option with the available toys I think you can certainly give it a try. I reckon that the ability to accept a certain size of toy is more a matter of training your mind and anus to relax enough rather than a major physiological stretching. Given that it's a matter of you inserting a toy yourself I think you are much less likely to do yourself an injury than you would be if, after a long lay-off, someone else was driving the toy.

    So, as long as it's a toy you have accommodated before and you go slowly on the insertion with lots of lube and stop if it starts to hurt you should be OK.

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    KinkyKev [sign in to see picture]
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    I once had a lube I bought from my local sex shop which was in a black bottle can't remember name! Does anyone have any decent suggestions for lube and toys from LH?

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    Well, for making toys really slick for easy insertion Liquid Silk is good. Being water-based it does dry out after a while (which is why we use a combination of LS and a silicone as the latter are great for staying power)

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    lube ,lube and more lube slips in nice and easy then

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    Good recommendation Gyrator, hubby & I really rate liquid silk, our favourite lube.

    However if we're ever using toys anally, we use this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13084 it's a bit thicker than liquid silk which means it clings to the toy nicely - and even though it's water-based it stays moist for ages.

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