I am thinking about buying my first sex toy. I am quite sexually experienced but I dont masturbate, as it doesnt get me anywhere. I dont get off on clitoral stimulation and see to be g spot orientated. I am allergic to latex, and most lubricants. I have children so need something very quiet that I can keep in my drawer. My sex life is not particuarly active and my other half is very traditional with his sexual taste, to the point where I am embarassed to tell him i would like to use a sex toy, as we dont have an active sex life in particular.