• Phone Sex in a long distance relationship with toys xx

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    louisexx [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for nearly 4months.

    We met online on a chat site and were friends for awhile before finally taking that step. Please do not judge me for dating someone online, he is the best thing that ever happened to me and I wouldnt change him for the world.

    We cant get enough of eachother and are constantly having phone sex, cybersex and exploring eachothers fantasies. We are very open when talking about sex but the only things that I had abit of apprehension about was the fact that I squirt (mainly on my second/third g-spot orgasm) and sex toys.

    I started mentioning squirting and juices and such to him during phone sex and he took to it well, although I don't always tell him when I squirt he seems to love it when I mention it. As for toys I'm still not to sure

    It didnt really matter at first, I was fine achieving orgasms through using my fingers but now it seems its a little lacking, especially when achieving multipul orgasms, I tend to end up frantically looking around my room for something I can slip inside myself thats a little bigger in the last moments.

    I decided the other day to buy a vibrator, I've explored alot with vibrations and it feels great so I thought why not?x I spent the night trying to persuade my boyfriend to pay attention on the sleek, velvet vibrators and to stop straying off to find the most bizzare sex toys, in the end I went with http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16603, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19968 and a cute little http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16559

    I'm hoping I can slowly lure him in and get him used to me playing and teasing myself with toys by starting off small xx

    Anyways, I wrote this just to ask if anyone has bought those toys in the past, or have any advice or recommendations for us especially on lube, glass dildos and things like that, please feel free, it'd be really appreciated (:

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Well hello and welcome.

    Former LD online relationship here, 5 years later and engaged. I don't think we're the type of people to judge so don't worry!

    You've made some good choices, bullets are quite friendly for using to show a partner. Lube? Did you have a particular thing in mind when using it? Anal, oral etc..

    See you around!

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    I've got one of the Silencers, and I must say it is the god of sex toys. This would be my desert island sex toy - if I could only have one toy for the rest of my life it'd be this one, so good choice.

    Just as an idea, have you considered doing that kind of stuff on cam via MSN/Skype? It does require a certain amount of gutsiness, but it can be very rewarding.

    Everyone will tell you why their lube is the best, although I think the best thing you can do is just work your way through the different brands so you can find the one you like best. Some are better than others (although this tends to be down to personal taste rather than one brand being better), although I've not really heard any stories of lubes which should always be avoided (except for Durex Tingle!).

    As for glass dildos, I have this one and can wholeheartedly recommend it. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11683

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    Not used any of those toys sorry so can't comment. Just wanted to say welcome and not to worry about the squirting thing. Guys love it! In fact most girls want to do it and are jealous of the ones who can!

    As for bringing toys in I think its a great idea and wish you all the best! Let us know how you get on.

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    HappyCouple [sign in to see picture]
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    naughtyboy wrote:

    Not used any of those toys sorry so can't comment. Just wanted to say welcome and not to worry about the squirting thing. Guys love it! In fact most girls want to do it and are jealous of the ones who can!

    As for bringing toys in I think its a great idea and wish you all the best! Let us know how you get on.

    +1

    I would love to try being with a girl that squirted, I have not managed to get my other half to and she is a little too shy to ever try, so I am not planning on pushing that boundary. But toys are great, I am in a LD relationship (4'th & final year of it / 5'th year together).

    I would say a small word of warning: Do not rush into anything, if you hope it to last save some things to introduce later ;). The way I look at it, my gf takes 6 months of convincing to do almost anything, but gets there in the end. It drives me crazy but it keeps things interesting.

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    Ecksvie wrote:

    I've got one of the Silencers, and I must say it is the god of sex toys. This would be my desert island sex toy - if I could only have one toy for the rest of my life it'd be this one, so good choice.http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11683

    A silent toy on a desert island? Think it through Evks!

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    Ecksvie [sign in to see picture]
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    WandA wrote:

    Ecksvie wrote:

    I've got one of the Silencers, and I must say it is the god of sex toys. This would be my desert island sex toy - if I could only have one toy for the rest of my life it'd be this one, so good choice.http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11683

    A silent toy on a desert island? Think it through Evks!

    I'm not sure that a toy which was loud enough to attract a passing plane or boat would make it onto the market in the first place. Besides, I can assure you that when I orgasm I make more than enough noise to make up for it!

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