• Need Help!

    Harro [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm just about to buy myself an anal sex toy. I've never bought one before, but I've used some items from around the house, and I decided it was time to buy. I'm either looking for anal beads, or a butt plug, or just a large anal dildo. I'm looking for something that will make my ass stretch really far. I love the feeling of gaping, and I was looking for some big anal beads - the type with a string, which is primarily what I want, but I can't find them. I am also baffled by the sizes of the anal dildos. I have looked at some of the bigger dildos available, but I'm not sure how big they actually are. Please help me :)

    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    If you look at the left hand side of the anal sex toys page you can select the rough diamiter of toy you'd like and the insertable length. maybe this could help?

    also most pages have a vital info section just below the "full description"

    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Hallo Harro,

    Glad to hear you're buying a toy made for the job. If it ain't got a flared base, it's not safe to pop up your bottom, so I'm glad you're leaving the home stuff alone.

    I'm not into big toys but I imagine it would be a good idea to buy several items that work you up slowly.

    When you browse the Anal Toy section you should see the product finder on your left. There you can browse by size (width and length!) , price, rating and type. It's really useful.


    These are all the products above ten inches in circumference. It makes my eyes water!


    This is the place for Anal Beads


    These heavy metal beads come on a string:


    And if you prefer latex, these might be worth a shot:


    There appear to be quite a few on strings.

    Why not take the opportunity to stock up on lube, too? You're gonna need it by the sound of it. There's a whole section dedicated to lubes made especially for bum fun


    Stay safe.

    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi harro..... just remember to work your way up slowly in size.... trying a large anal plug/dildo that you are not used to can be very uncomfortable, painful and well just unsucessfull.

    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Harro.

    We have something similar to this which we (my partner and I) find spot on.


    Good luck use lube and go easy!


    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    You may also find the articles on the LH blog useful too. Simply go to the blog and search for 'anal' or 'beads' to find great guides and ideas.

    How to Use Anal Beads: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2009/01/04/how-to-use-anal-beads/

    Make the Most of you Anal Beads: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2007/03/30/once-you-pop-make-the-most-of-your-anal-beads/

    An Overview of Anal Toys http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2009/12/31/an-overview-of-anal-sex-toys/

    A Beginner's Guide to Anal Toys http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2008/06/11/anal-sex-toys-beginners-guide/

    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Also consider that string isn't the easiest to clean.

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