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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    I have quite a collection of toys of my own but would like to balance the male vs female ratio in my toy draw a little. So im thinking about a couple of naughty stocking filling for my OH.

    He already has the below cockrings and am interested in an adjustable one. Has anyone tried them? Do they hold their size well and does the fastener get in the way at all?

    Lovehoney bionic bullet
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22187

    Tracey Cox
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18919

    Lovehoney Get Hard extra thick 3 pack
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32874

    Also I would really like to get him a stroker. I love watching him pleasure himself and would love to encourage this to happen more often. I want him to realise that I enjoy watching him just as much as he enjoys watching me & he doesn't need to return the favour.
    Don't want to jump in feet first (or should that be cock first) and get a fleshlight (yet) but don't want to get the cheapest option for him not to enjoy it as a result.

    Can anyone with a stroker recommend one for my newbie OH?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    I haven't tried an adjustable cock ring, but I have heard great things about them and judging by the reviews on some of them, they are pretty cool. This one has great reviews http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33550 as does this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28652. A quick read of the most helpful section in those reviews should tell you everything you need to know!

    Has he tried a Tenga Egg? These are extremely popular and there are different textures to experiment with. They are a great inexpensive option to explore lots of variety before moving onto something like a Fleshlight! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24048

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    I was tempted by an adjustable one by the thought of him loosening it at the perfect moment.

    Are the tenga eggs single use? What's their USP vs a standard stroker?

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there, we have the Tracey Cox adjustable one, and we definately prefer this to static rings. With regards to the fastener, it doesn't get in the way at all. Here is my review for this one :) x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28652&reviewid=79995#customer_reviews

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    So... I'm just going to recommend the Fleshlight anyway. My OH loves it 😄 He tried a cheap stroker from Lovehoney before getting the Fleshlight and he really didn't enjoy it at all and we sent it back. I think it might be a good idea to buy something more expensive to start with since that will help make him more interested in toys. Our first stroker actually put my OH off toys for a while until I convinced him to go for a Fleshlight.

    I think Nats advice about a TENGA egg is great since they are more cheap but still has great reviews, that could be a great way to introduce toys :)

    If you have a wand, the male attachment could also be a good idea since it seems to be quite popular as long as his penis isn't too girthy :)

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    Tenga Eggs are marketed as single use, but if you clean them properly you can get multiple uses out of them :)

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    Ah, thank you everyone. I clearly know nothing in this area!!

    I'll take a look at your review scorpious, adjustable seems the way to go!

    Sxleksaker, what was it he didn't like about the stroker? From what I can gather the fleshlights and Tenga product are a hell of a lot more luxurious. Just looked at the Tenga 3D which looks good.

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    We tried this one at first:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30096

    He thought that it was uncomfortable and he didn't like the material. He'd rather get off with his hands instead of the toy. He tried it two times and then asked me if I could send it back for him. Going by the reviews I thought it was going to be a hit but sadly not. Since getting his Fleshlight his thoughts on toys have definitely changed and he now understands why I have such a large collection 😄

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    Ive always wanted a flesh light but I think they are far too expensive for what they are!

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    I wish they would that 5 in strap on on sale i know they had as deal of the day a few days ago but still a little steep for us. maybe 1 of these days when i get a full time job be able to get one

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    NaughtyNerd wrote:

    I have quite a collection of toys of my own but would like to balance the male vs female ratio in my toy draw a little. So im thinking about a couple of naughty stocking filling for my OH.

    He already has the below cockrings and am interested in an adjustable one. Has anyone tried them? Do they hold their size well and does the fastener get in the way at all?

    Lovehoney bionic bullet
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22187

    Tracey Cox
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18919

    Lovehoney Get Hard extra thick 3 pack
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32874

    Also I would really like to get him a stroker. I love watching him pleasure himself and would love to encourage this to happen more often. I want him to realise that I enjoy watching him just as much as he enjoys watching me & he doesn't need to return the favour.
    Don't want to jump in feet first (or should that be cock first) and get a fleshlight (yet) but don't want to get the cheapest option for him not to enjoy it as a result.

    Can anyone with a stroker recommend one for my newbie OH?

    Lubes , get him so e different Lubes to try. I'd wil me him look big and shinny. The you get to see it in all its glory. Not only that the sound it make will sound amazing too.

    For me the best lubes for male masterbation are silicone based. Like sliqiud silver.

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm gonna go against the grain here and state that I do not like adjustable cock rings. I seem to have a nasty habit of breaking them; they just don't stay tight enough to make a difference; I much prefer a tight fitting steel ring. Mind you, since I seem to break them, the only ones I've tried recently are the electrastim electraloops - so maybe they have got better recently.

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Sub. I wanted a mixture of views. I'm sure breaking one won't be an issue but I was concerned about them loosening off whilst being worn.

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    Another vote for Tenga eggs here. We don't like realistic toys at all so these are idea. They are so fun and quirky. If you are careful you can clean it, store it back in its shell and it will last. We have had ours for around 6 months and its still in pretty good nick! There's a wee hole at the back but there's no issue really. It took a while to get over it looked like he was humping a hard boiled egg 😂

    We have quite a range of cock rings now. We have a FSD rechargeable beauty, Durex devil, LoveHoneys own disposable and Doc Johnson adjustable set. I love the FSD one but the husband feels number by it. His favourite is the adjustable set but its easy to over tighten them.

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    I've never tried a adjustable cock ring so I can't comment there. In terms of a stroker I've got a couple of suggestions the tenga eggs are very good and the heart one is a favourite and was my first male toy.


    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24048

    There is a reversible stroker which is a good choice for beginners

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35722

    Or the thrust range does have an several good male toys.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/search/?q=Thrust+range

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    I would think about a realistic toy. My OH loves the extra dimension of using another woman on me!

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Just to give you a different option, Mr Scorpius is a big fan of the Hummer teamed with a mains powered wand :) x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28560

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    RosyCheek wrote:

    .... It took a while to get over it looked like he was humping a hard boiled egg

    that's exactly what puts me off a little...can't get my head around how they stretch so much.

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks everyone. Definitely think I should get him a masterbater of some description, sounds like his missing out.

    He's a saucy sod with me and has really helped push me out of my comfort zone and embrace new experiences but don't think he's every been selfish and thought about himself. The adjustable cock ring us now a given I think but I think a chat and some sneaky 'research' might be in order to find out what else would interest him.

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    ive had a few male masturbators in my time and i would say my fav so far would be the tenga flip hole. it's quite pricey but was a great feeling. It's supposedley got 3 buttons to adjust the feeling but i didnt find they made a great deal of difference, however the overall feeling was very stimulating. There are various different textures at different insertion lengths so you can vary the pleasure with longer or shorter strokes. It's also really easy to clean up after.

    I dont have the tenga anymore but i do have a fleshlight flight and a fleshlight quickshot. The fleshlight flight is ok and has an adjustable suction feeling, by unscrewing or tightening the top cap, which feels good and makes sexy noises but i wouldnt say its anything spectacular. The quickshot in my opinion is not worth trying.

    I've literally just ordered a new one The lovehoney Thrust Pro Mini. I went for this partly because its on special offer and partly because of the great reviews. So i'll update this in a few days when it arrives.

    I've also had a couple of Tenga eggs and they are ok. They are much more fun when the OH is using it on me but as a toy to use alone they dont add much to the satisfaction.

    Hope this was a little helpfull

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