Batgirl, what a brave lass you are. I have to say a massive well done to you! Walking away from someone you love is one of the hardest things you can do. I'm glad you found someone who appreciates you. I just really had to tell you what a strong person you are and for that you have my up most respect.
Thank you, It did take a lot of courage to do, and it was very hard but I had to do it for me. I needed to be me again and the way he made me feel wasn't very womanly at all and he made me feel so low I knew to get myself back I had to leave and I took the first chance I got. It was hard for my family to accept and it meant they thought I was going crazy and having a crisis causing lots of tension, but now that's all over and they accepted what I did and we've all moved on apart from my ex who's still stuck at his pc and with his porn addiction, so i count my blessings everyday that I had the guts to leave.