• New anal toy user advice

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    Golfer_guy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all

    i have just taken the plunge and ordered the anal mystery bundle but as I have never tried using them before I'm after some advice on how to prepare myself and insert the toy for the first time.

    by the way I have bought some lube to go with it too

    all advice is welcome

    thanks

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    Smudgey [sign in to see picture]
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    You should maybe consider starting with a finger, ease yourself in. Initially it will feel strange and uncomfortable, but once you get used to it the feeling is incredible. Plenty of lube, Nice and slow. Don't go too big too soon!!

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there, make sure you start with the smallest toy in your selection. The most important thing is to take things slowly and stop immediately if anything hurts or is uncomfortable. Make sure you use lots of lube - this is essential. Just take your time, and have a read through these guides which may be useful :) xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/buyers-guide/how-to-choose-butt-plug/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/buyers-guide/anal-sex-toys-beginners-guide/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/buyers-guide/a-quick-and-easy-guide-to-anal-lubricants/

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    D.j [sign in to see picture]
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    The first thing you should do is make sure you are clean inside get a good anal douche and slowly at first do not rush enjoy I have butt plugs that are too big the average internal size is about 8 inches I am only 6 inches so a lot of the one I have are too long try and check before you buy bigger toys that will save you money

    Dj

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    Bluebells [sign in to see picture]
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    Above all, I recommend taking your time and not being too ambitious the first few times you try. To start with, maybe - after applying loads, and loads, of lube, both to you and the toy - just hold the tip of the toy gently to your anus and get used to the sensation of it pressing against you there. As you become familiar with the sensation, try - again, gently - working it around the area and very softly pressing it into you,. If you're taking your time, and feel relaxed, your body will relax around it and the insertion will then be easier than you might expect.

    But if feels wrong or uncomfy at any stage - stop, relax, and do something else for a few minutes before trying again.

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    Golfer_guy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the advice, my first time playing with the toys was awesome fun using all your advice

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    Choconala [sign in to see picture]
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    Make sure you are relaxed, take it easy! Lots of lube and try with fingers to begin then work onto the smallest anal toy in your box. Being relaxed is so important lol xx

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