• First order advice

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    Sass101 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,
    I've spent the last 2 days back & forth on the Love Honey website trying to decide what to order but I am totally clueless when it comes to sex toys.

    I've never used anything... I spent several years in a boring marriage with a husband who wasn't interested in experimenting at all. I'm now with a new partner and sex is amazing - I thought it might be fun to surprise him when he returns from working away next week with a box full of goodies...

    In terms of sex toys I'm looking for advice and recommendations for;

    * Something we can use together during sex (I thought maybe a cock ring but he is very large at 2" and so concerned they may be too tight?)

    * Something I can use when he is working away - I prefer penetrative stimulation to cliterol, and wanted something on the thicker side, but not too hard and plastic

    Thanks in advance 🙂

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there, maybe a rabbit may be ideal for you. I can highly recomend the Tracey Cox one, it is the only rabbit that I have found that works for me, and it is smooth silicone :

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30574

    Also perhaps a We-vibe rather than a cock ring or a Nea 2 for use together - these are both great toys :) xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33244

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32559

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32559

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34536

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Also, this Lovehoney Guide may be helpful for you too:) xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/buyers-guide/how-to-choose-your-first-sex-toy/

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    AsYouWish! [sign in to see picture]
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    I think most women seem to need a rabbit in their lives!
    For together time those toys might be quite pricey for a first venture into toys. They would be great if cost isn't a problem. A good bullet vibe is good to use together as you can hit the spot in loads of positions. Cock rings normally stretch to fit most but make sure it will fit your anatomy when you are in the act. They are usually good fun.

    I would avoid bum toys unless you have discussed them previously.

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    Vanilla_Kink [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovehoney sells some adjustable cock rings which may work for you're partner. These don't vibrate though. The re is also the we vibe or the Lelo noa which are both couples toys.
    I think most women like a rabbit for personal use. The lovehoney happy rabbits are great ones :)

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    luvved up cupple [sign in to see picture]
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    Currently loving this little beauty!
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20525

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    Choconala [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there :) i think a good beginner toy for you both to use would be a vibrating cock ring, if your thinking of getting a rabbit you could get a rabbit cock ring and everyone wins ;) iv just received mine today can't wait to try it out only heard good things im only just getting back into the sex toy game aswell xx

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi. Unless I have read OP wrong you say you are not particularly mad on clitoral stimulation, in which case I don't think the rabbits are the right toy for you.

    Perhaps just for a starter a girthy dildo might be the way to go i.e.,

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30881

    Not too expensive as a trial and error kind of experiment, and lots of others to choose from too.

    Have you ever considered any kind of butt plug or anything along the bum fun route?

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    Choconala [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry i was walking whilst reading this so mis read the part where you prefer penetrative rather than clitoral stimulation! My bad lol xx

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Choconala wrote:

    Sorry i was walking whilst reading this so mis read the part where you prefer penetrative rather than clitoral stimulation! My bad lol xx

    I am so glad you said 'walking' lol xxx

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    bex1213 [sign in to see picture]
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    Great suggestions so far! If you really don't get on well with clitoral stimulation than I would agree that a rabbit might not be for you. You might want to see how you get on with something like this and see how it goes: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24372. You can always 'bulk up' in terms of girth later after you get a feel for what you want in a toy. LH own brand dildos are good if you don't want vibrations: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22814. 

    In terms of couples toys, girth might not be an issue if you get an adjustable one. Here's the link for those http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/cock-rings/adjustable-cock-rings/ . The tracey cox one has a maximum diametre of 8.5 inches so I'm pretty sure you won't have any issues in terms of size!

    Just remember, as you're new, that you need to preplan in terms of proper cleaning, storage and long term care of your toys so you might want to pick up some stuff from the 3 for £10 deals.x

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    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
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    I think every girl needs these in her life http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187 that pink one hits my G spot in such an incredible way!

    I too came out of a marriage and found an incredible partner who is happy my ever increasing supply of sex toys, lingerie and restraints!! It's so exciting having been repressed for so long!! Enjoy!!

    Just to throw a curve ball as you asked for something to use during sex! I bought this on a whim not knowing exactly how it would be received http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32549 needless to say we LOVE using it and neither of us had experienced that before!

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    Choconala [sign in to see picture]
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    Hahahaha lovingnewtoys that tickled me :') xx

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