• Need help with buttplugs

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    LittleNeko [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello, kinda new to this topic.

    I always have been interested in butt plugs, maybe a bit too much, but i decided to walk in a sexshop and buy one and honestly, it was the best decision i made in the pas 2 years. After playing with household objects, like a cigar holder tube and a homemade thing, it was really good to feel to enjoy it more with lube and proper toys. The problem is that i bought a plug i feel i failed with. It's a Pixie Probe. 1 hour of playing, lot's of lube and i was able to work it in gently. It was comfortable, honestly, but it almost "fell inside". I could calm myself and give it a push so it got out safely. I was calm enough to reinsert it. After that, it didn' show any sign of falling inside however it didn't stay in no matter what i did. When the water based lube worn off, i could hold it in for a few minutes. So my question is the following. Can i make it safe somehow? I was thinking of tying a thin rope to it and if it slides in, i can get it back. I'm unable to buy another one for weeks, and i don't want this one to be wasted since it felt really good, till it tried to slide in. Also i am looking for a vinrating plug, at least 2" wide. So if anyone has any suggestions for both cases, i would appreciate that.

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    lmh95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I wouldn't risk using it again unless you fancy a trip to A&E. It could get lost inside. Much better to wait till you have some money again and then go for something with a flared base to prevent travel.


    Welcome to the forums :)

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi LittleNeko, welcome :)

    Personally no, I'd chalk it up to experience and ditch it. Had to google it but it looks like a jelly toy which aren't really body safe anyway. Try a silicone or glass plug for size!

    I'd recommend taking a look at Lovehoney's 2 for £15 buttplug section, and maybe picking up the LH 'classic' small and medium plugs. I have plenty of buttplugs and the Medium classic is one of the best I've ever tried :)

    Happy shopping!

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    Colonel Lube [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife and I bought a few anal toys recently. Of those we bought we both agree that this one was the best:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33371

    It felt good inside, did not fall out and the base makes it very unlikely to get pulled inside.

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    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love my Lovehoney butt Tingler, I have it in medium! I don't think you should continue using anything your bum is swallowing.

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    NightWaltz1993 [sign in to see picture]
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    Try the bedtime butt plugs - LH have a variety of sizes and there is absolutely no fear of it getting lost!

    Good luck xxx

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    I haven't looked into this one but if it has a flat Base like most should it's going to hurt like hell to get it back out if it slips in past your sphincter. I would recommend looking round LH and looking for something with a very well defined neck. This allows your sphincter to close while the bulb is inside so it can't slip inside or out

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !

    I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28502

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21230

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809

    or even a set so that as you become more experienced you wont have to buy bigger ones. I have this set and its really good...no too expensive either x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

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    mripguru [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ wrote:

    Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !

    I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28502

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21230

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809

    or even a set so that as you become more experienced you wont have to buy bigger ones. I have this set and its really good...no too expensive either x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    What about something a little "bumpier"?

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    This is my butt plug of choice - til I find something better.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34629

    The internal ball gives it just that something a bit extra xx

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    LittleNeko [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for all the suggestions. I was already looking for a new one. Sadly i live in a distant country, so it's hard to get anything from lovehoney. http://thexshop.xxx/en/lovetoys/anal-toys/with-vibration/5-speeds-plug-large-black.html
    I was thinking about this one. They messed up the description, because its width is 4.5cm at the thickest point and in my opinion this is good enough not ti slip in and also it has vibration whick i really want to have for self bondage. Anyway the one i have now is made from silicone as well, i mean the pixie.

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    NightWaltz1993 wrote:

    Try the bedtime butt plugs - LH have a variety of sizes and there is absolutely no fear of it getting lost!

    Good luck xxx

    Why would this one have no chance of traveling whereas the pixie did even if its diameter difference between the neck and the base seems bigger?

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    Chantellemc11 [sign in to see picture]
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    Heyy my husband really wants to have some bum fun with me but he is rather big down there I'm scared he will hurt me as when I had my daughter I had stitches from front to back what sort of but plug will I have to start with as there is no way he is just going strait for it as it to big what wood yous use or do??

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Chantellemc11 wrote:

    Heyy my husband really wants to have some bum fun with me but he is rather big down there I'm scared he will hurt me as when I had my daughter I had stitches from front to back what sort of but plug will I have to start with as there is no way he is just going strait for it as it to big what wood yous use or do??

    Play on your own for a bit first just using your fingers and plenty of lube. Once you're comfortable with that you can progress onto a smallish plug/prober, something like these...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21767

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28501

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12177

    You can then gradually increase the size, remembering to always use plenty of lube. You need to teach your body to relax while using anal toys amnd then you'll find anal sex pleasurable. If you're tense you wont enjoy it and may find it uncomfortable. If your oh is quite big I'd move up to a reasonably sized toy before you let him penetrate you anally. He can join in the fun by using the toys witrh you until you feel comfortable with him being in there x

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    mripguru wrote:

    Terri JJ wrote:

    Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !

    I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28502

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21230

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809

    or even a set so that as you become more experienced you wont have to buy bigger ones. I have this set and its really good...no too expensive either x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    What about something a little "bumpier"?

    Bumpier ? How about these ? I have these and I love them up my bum x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35599

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32085

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14535

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    honeybun91 [sign in to see picture]
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    I just have the basic slimline one which is like £6.99 but if u want to experiment some are 2 for £15 at the moment

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    m4t1n [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ wrote:

    mripguru wrote:

    Terri JJ wrote:

    Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !

    I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28502

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21230

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809

    or even a set so that as you become more experienced you wont have to buy bigger ones. I have this set and its really good...no too expensive either x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    What about something a little "bumpier"?

    Bumpier ? How about these ? I have these and I love them up my bum x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35599

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32085

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14535

    Some good choices from Terri JJ!

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    LittleNeko [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello

    I bought the Black Velvet large vibrating plug. What can i say? This is much better than the one i bought last time. This one stays in, thr vibrating engine is pretty strong yet quiet, even in the absolutely quiet room it is hard to notice anything. I applyed a large amount of lube, but it stays in no matter what i do. Pretty good imo, and definately not for newbies. It was worth buying it.

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    rebel5960 [sign in to see picture]
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    Find the biggest and best you can afford and enjoy ever moment

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    Mcbean [sign in to see picture]
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    rebel5960 wrote:

    Find the biggest and best you can afford and enjoy ever moment

    amen!

    its a never ending fun fest, as soon as you get into one plug/dildo, you're looking for the next one!

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