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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Just purchased my first strap on went with a beginers setup not sure on how to tell the oh as she has no idea ive ordered it she is happy to pound my ass with a 6.5" dildo but not sure what she will think when i give her this. I know she is happy with anal play just not sure if she will go this far to which i crave to happen every night .

    Any suggestion how to bring it out ?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    I think you should have spoke to her before purchasing as communication is key. Before it arrives, ask her how she feels about strap on sex. If she's happy with using toys on you, she might already be curious about pegging but worried how you'll react, likewise it may not be her cup of tea. Sit down tonight and have a chat outside of the bedroom and take it from there.

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Cool thanks :-) i do think she will be up for it we both love anal and like i said she loves pounding my ass with her many toys am just worried she will thinkbits a step to far will deffo talk to her later
    Thanks
    Again

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    If shes happy to put toys in you, I very much doubt she's going to be freaked by wearing the toy :)

    Have fun; it took me over ten years before I tried pegging, and now I'm happy to say my OH does me twice weekly, and we've never been happier :)

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Great to hear thanks sex squid :-)

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    loganlogan [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm sure as anal is a big part of your lives she won't be freaked out.she might will probably find it a massive turn on

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks loganlogan its really encouraging here these comments

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Well just an update on this . Thanks for the advice to those who commented spoke to the oh who is absalutly over the moon i ordered a strap on said she didnt know how to approach me with the idea we have a fun filled night planned and believe me guys i cant. Lovehoney has done it again :-)

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    staplegun wrote:

    Well just an update on this . Thanks for the advice to those who commented spoke to the oh who is absalutly over the moon i ordered a strap on said she didnt know how to approach me with the idea we have a fun filled night planned and believe me guys i cant. Lovehoney has done it again :-)

    No, Lovehoney didnt do it...you did ! Communication is so important in any aspect of a relalationship.

    It sounds as though you, your oh and your bum are going to have a great time :) x

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks terri jj i think its going to be an amazing night i will be updating this on saturdaybto let everyone know how it went :-)

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    Good luck staplegun! My OH pegged me last night and reduced me to a sobbing mess. Her turn tonight ;)

    Enjoy!!

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow sex squid that sounds amazing we have everything in place as oh wants me tied to the bed and in her own words fuck me till i cant sit down lol as i have done to her in many occasions haha

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    Enjoy sounds amazing

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks northern92

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    Northern92 [sign in to see picture]
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    Just ordered our first harness so hopefully when it arrives will be able to try pegging for the first time ;)

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Go for it pal been a long time coming for me :-)

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    Can't wait, took me a while to talk to the OH about it but when I did and she was up for it didn't mess around buying one

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Fantastic i ordered mine first then thought i better talk to her pmsl

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    Haha glad the conversation went the right way for you tho

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    Me to because it could of gone wrong very quick haha

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