• worried about butt plug loss!!

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, first time on here so be nice - lol!!

    I am a fan of anal and DP. I would like to try a butt plug (vibrating I think) but am a little worried about 'losing' it. I have used a butt plug before supposedly the t-bar would prevent any accidents, but when I climaxed through clitoral stimulation the whole bloomin thing disappeared. Needless to say panic soon set in. Once retrieved the plug went straight in the rubbish.

    I now want to try again but am nervous this could happen again.

    Could it have been that the body of my previous plug was too 'girthy'?

    Suggestions please.

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    OMG they should not "travel" like that. Do you remember what your previous toy was? You could compare against other products to make sure the tbar was larger?

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome to the forums.

    Here is a guide to butt plugs and their use. Your plug needs to fit properly. Ideally a thin neck with a large base will prevent loss. The insertable part depends on your experience and wont make any difference to it disappearing. There are loads of threads on this topic. Just type it into the search bar at the top and you'll find your way to them xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/buyers-guide/

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    Talia [sign in to see picture]
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    If you want a vibrating butt plug, pick one with a wired controller (they have stronger vibrations anyway, because more - and standard-sized - batteries can be used). That way, IF it should disappear (which I frankly can't imagine happening with the ones I have: LH Bedtime 10 functioin, Tracy Cox and LH inflating) you could use the wire to help recovery.

    Though, as I said, I absolutely don't see how a plug with a decent base could disappear into my rectum. In your place I would stay away from plugs with a finger loop, though - but generally they don't vibrate (unless you put a love egg into the loop - and then the egg will stop the plug from disappearing).

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    To be honest I can't remember what it was called, but like I mentioned it was quite girthy (about 9" at its widest I think and about 5" total length) as I like the 'full' feeling. The t-bar must have been about 3" in length I think but was also quite flexible so just folded up I guess.

    All of the above is approx as it scared me to death when I 'lost' it.

    I am thinking slimmer is the most sensible option but still worried about a repeat problem.

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    lovingnewtoys wrote:

    Hi, first time on here so be nice - lol!!

    I am a fan of anal and DP. I would like to try a butt plug (vibrating I think) but am a little worried about 'losing' it. I have used a butt plug before supposedly the t-bar would prevent any accidents, but when I climaxed through clitoral stimulation the whole bloomin thing disappeared. Needless to say panic soon set in. Once retrieved the plug went straight in the rubbish.

    I now want to try again but am nervous this could happen again.

    Could it have been that the body of my previous plug was too 'girthy'?

    Suggestions please.

    Hi,

    With butt plugs, you have to eventually increase in size. Since you are experienced having been using them for so long and so regularly, decreasing sizes may pose a problem as you mentioned. I am not keen on vibrating butt plugs as their shapes and sizes are limited.

    I would go for glass instead. I find that their bases are much much better. Have a think about these products below:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32887

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25812 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809

    You can use a mains vibrator against them if you are after vibrations at the link below:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20464

    I hope this helps.

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, thanks for your reply but I think you may have misunderstood me. I only used the plug once a long time ago, and due to my 'mishap' have not ventured into plugs again. However, yes, anal and DP are on my regular to do list - with the aid of my hubby + dildo, or double ended dildo.

    I do still want to try a plug again, but need to feel confident there will be no accidents.

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    The Odd Couple [sign in to see picture]
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    What happened was certainly a freakish occurance, and shouldn't put you off of the pleasures anal can bring. It took a marriage proposal to get my (now) wife to agree to anal play, but she's come to love it. She's in the minor leagues in terms of insertable lengths, but I am an old hand at it, and can take some pretty big plugs/dildos.

    As long as you make sure that the base is as flared as you can get, it will be a good way of boosting your confidence and you'll work down to smaller flares. Given what I can get up there, I am tempted to name my spincter "Donald", as it's an arsehole, and there's usually a Trump involved...

    Build up your confidence and have fun with it.

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    LOL - that conjours up a picture!!!

    Thanks for the advice and words of encouragement. I think it is going to be a case of try to relax and enjoy rather than worry too much about previous experience - I get horny just thinking about it again and it seems such a shame to waste it!

    I never thought I would enjoy having my a***hole filled so much and I am very glad to hear your wife has discovered this pleasure too. Keep having fun!

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    You've always got something to hold onto with this one?

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2380

    and is a good starter one, good size and shape.

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    Talia [sign in to see picture]
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    Whereas the shape looks good, I would consider 5.25 " as much too big to start with. And being PCV it's porous and can't be sterilized. It doesn't vibrate either...

    My first one was this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772 - slim, silicone (but not waterproof, though I still wash it under the tap) and decent vibrations (battery compartment takes rechargeables, at least Lidl's Tronic brand). And it's currently on sale!

    That one might be nice too http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28501

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for your input - no pun intended!!!

    I now have some additions to my wishlist and certainly hope to push the purchase button very soon xx

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    lindtchilli [sign in to see picture]
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    As long as you make sure that the base is as flared as you can get, it will be a good way of boosting your confidence and you'll work down to smaller flares. Given what I can get up there, I am tempted to name my spincter "Donald", as it's an arsehole, and there's usually a Trump involved...

    bwahahahahahaha

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    Just Jenson [sign in to see picture]
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    Have a look at the njoy range of plugs. Shouldn't travel anywhere

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