• Is this vibrator too big?

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2065

    First of all - sale!

    (A few days ago i was looking at http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12325, but since this has a great sale..)

    I'm looking for a realistic looking vibrator, but i'm a virgin so i don't want it too big. I would actually like it if it did break my hymen, but i still want something i'm comfortable with..

    The only one i've been using is the very BASICS beginner's vibrator which is really slim.

    Any help would be appreciated, thanks!

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello :)

    I would personally go for the second option, the girth is much slimmer. If you're not used to anything other than a very slim vibrator, it's probably the better option to work your way up to the thicker toys later on. 6.25 inches in girth may not sound much but I would not advise that large of a girth as a beginner. The second one is on offer, so you could get another toy or some lube with free postage for an extra £5!

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    Which BASICS vibrator are you currently using? There are a few!

    With a 6.25 inch girth that's a very thick vibrator, yes I would be inclined to say it's too big if you're only starting out. The girth is the measurement you want to keep an eye on, as the length being too long is not really a problem compared to the girth being too big. You probably don't want to move up more than an inch or two at a time anyway, depending how small your current toy is. Somethingb etween 4 and 5 inches in girth would likely be more your target range.

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    NatandTom wrote:

    Hello :)

    I would personally go for the second option, the girth is much slimmer. If you're not used to anything other than a very slim vibrator, it's probably the better option to work your way up to the thicker toys later on. 6.25 inches in girth may not sound much but I would not advise that large of a girth as a beginner. The second one is on offer, so you could get another toy or some lube with free postage for an extra £5!

    Thank you! So you would recommend the 9 inch one? I couldn't find the girth on that one, but i agree with you.

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovebirds_x wrote:

    Which BASICS vibrator are you currently using? There are a few!

    With a 6.25 inch girth that's a very thick vibrator, yes I would be inclined to say it's too big if you're only starting out. The girth is the measurement you want to keep an eye on, as the length being too long is not really a problem compared to the girth being too big. You probably don't want to move up more than an inch or two at a time anyway, depending how small your current toy is. Somethingb etween 4 and 5 inches in girth would likely be more your target range.

    The BASICS Mini vibrator :) I brought it 3 years ago for £3 and was very pleased!

    Thank you, yes i want something realistic but small in girth. I don't know how to find that information - some pages don't mention it.

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    The girth of that one is 4.6 inches at the widest point. I'd recommend the 9 inch one from the choices you have, yes. You don't have to use all the length afterall!

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28919

    Because of the girth i've found this one, so i don't know know - too many options, i could buy them all!

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    Would it be wrong of me to recommend this one lol http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30574

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    Kittycat102 wrote:

    Would it be wrong of me to recommend this one lol http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30574

    Haha that looks quite fancy! I've added it to my wishlist ;)

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    I've brought two, so thank you for your help!

    I've chosen the link in my last post, and one with suction which will be interesting.. :)

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    Sarah02J wrote:

    Kittycat102 wrote:

    Would it be wrong of me to recommend this one lol http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30574

    Haha that looks quite fancy! I've added it to my wishlist ;)

    It's great for a beginner in my opinion and it's so soft :)

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    Briona87 [sign in to see picture]
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    What about something like this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25366 ?

    Call me a hygiene freak if you will but I find PVC and jelly rubber insertable toys a tad yucky...

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    Kittycat102 [sign in to see picture]
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    Briona87 wrote:

    What about something like this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25366 ?

    Call me a hygiene freak if you will but I find PVC and jelly rubber insertable toys a tad yucky...

    They smell horrible lol

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    Talia [sign in to see picture]
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    I would recommend to choose one of the realistic dildo vibrators in silicone http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/realistic-dildo-vibrators/all/all/silicone/all/all/ - though I'm sorry to see that they all seem to be on the girthier side. But if you can do without the realism, there's lots and lots of 4" and 4.5" vibrators in non-porous (=easy to clean - just buy a waterproof toy), non-smelly silicone. I wouldn't recommend anything over 4.5" as a first insertable...

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    Naughty Miss K [sign in to see picture]
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    Agree with the others in that it's the girth you need to be on the watch for:)

    You may find that your hymen is also broken already, as riding a bike or a horse etc can do it :)

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    Sarah02J [sign in to see picture]
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    My vibrator arrived today! It's 4.5 in girth whereas my first (and only) one was 3.75. It's too big!

    Obviously i will keep trying, but any tips? :)

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    Talia [sign in to see picture]
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    Start with the small one and don't try the big one till you are really aroused. And maybe get a size in between...

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    Ready to Play [sign in to see picture]
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    My girlfriend had the one you linked of several different penetration vibes. She liked it but I don't think it was her favourite.. She liked the texture but she never talked about girth one way or another and she'd been playing with toys since she was i think 17 (7 years) so that's quite different from you. Voila! The totaliity of my knowledge and wisdom for on this topic for whatever its worth.

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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    I csn't take over 4.5 inch girth and im a virgin but i'm pretty sure i don't have a hymen.

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