i want a toy to help with masturbation but also to pop the cherry so that it wont be awkward for my future b/f. i want to get a realistic dildo because it seems cooler and i like how it has veins..but i also want it to be a vibrator. but i cant find any for beginners with both features. should i just forget about realistic? does it really serve much for masturbation?
I've noticed myself most toys aren't made for beginners. The toys described as "slim girth" are still 4 inch or more, which isn't slim at all, it's average size for a real penis. Being a virgin myself i have tried a few types of toy over the last 2 years (had never masturbated before and similarly wanted to reassure myself of a few things including that sexual encounters would be less awkward) and with the jelly/silicone toys i honestly have never been able to feel the ridge detail, just discomfort, but then i do have to use a condom to even be able to insert them as the material, even with lube, is too "grippy". Maybe i'm odd, i don't know, but i hate textured toys as they just feel painful to me, so i stick with smooth glass toys, though sadly those don't vibrate.