• I need a little help with what's a good first toy

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    Bigsparkyt [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife and I are looking for a little help with which is a good first toy to try out in the bedroom .

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    j&lxxxx [sign in to see picture]
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    Is it for you, her, or both.

    Or for you to use on her, or her on you.

    Do you want vibey, or spanky.

    What are you into, any more info?

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes we definitely need a bit more to go on - internal, vibrating, couple toy, he toy, she toy, and definite nonos

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    jimbogemini [sign in to see picture]
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    One thing for sure. You are spoilt for choice on here. As the others said, what are your preferences, likes and dislikes?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    If you're not sure what it is you're looking for then this might help? It explains what toys would be the best for what kind of stimulation you're looking for. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/buyers-guide/how-to-choose-your-first-sex-toy/

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    sparkyt [sign in to see picture]
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    Well . . We had a go with a vide cock ring which went well . .
    But when a showed her the rabbit in a shop she said it's to much . . To many things going on .

    I got her a super silent which she said was ok but didn't really do much . .

    We play and have a great time when we're having sex

    I'd just like at add a little more while we are in 69 ...

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    Ruby Red Slippers [sign in to see picture]
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    Here's my list of all time favourites:

    Here are my favourites:

    tracey cox rabbit:http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30574

    Charilize Rabbit: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31803 - these 2 rabbits are beatiful, simple to work and not intimidating at all

    Wickedly Tempting Bullet (although silencer seems similar and cheaper): http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30890/http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30215

    Erotic rocket: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33367

    Ami + kegel trainer (your wife using a kegel trainer can really increase enjoyment for both of you): http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32417

    this amazing glass toy: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32877

    and the humdinger: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21149

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    sunseasex [sign in to see picture]
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    A Wand! They really are magic! But be prepared to orgasm quick at full speed!

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    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    Silencer 2.0 you can rub it all over it and ok I've only tried it on me but I imagine it being run along a penis would do wonders too

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    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh it depends on sizes you can take because it's big!

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    fushia [sign in to see picture]
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    Fifty shades of grey pleasure balls for her, they are an amazing first toy.

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    I think this really depends on how she likes to play. But a rabbitt is the best of both words with c and g spot stimualtion. A good one to start with is the Tracy Cox posted above.

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    bex1213 [sign in to see picture]
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    sparkyt wrote:

    Well . . We had a go with a vide cock ring which went well . .
    But when a showed her the rabbit in a shop she said it's to much . . To many things going on .

    I got her a super silent which she said was ok but didn't really do much . .

    We play and have a great time when we're having sex

    I'd just like at add a little more while we are in 69 ...

    If she doesn't like all of the bells and whistles of a full rabbit vibrator (which is quite like me to be honest), you can always get the best bit of the classics. For clitoral stimulation my partner and I really enjoy a little mini wand like this during oral: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34708. There's also the more targetted and intense pleasure you can get just from the bunny ears vibrator. I recently reviewed this one and LOVED it: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32674. Or for something more versatile a love egg vibrator is great because you can do clitoral and internal vibes while enjoying 69. This one is great: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33566.

    Could be that she wants just internal stimulation and this website as TONNES of those to choose from. Personally, I love glass dildoes like these (also great because you get two!-http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187) but you can't go wrong with a basic g-spot vibrator if she wants that as they can stimulate inside and out and are very versatile (I enjoyed this to start- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2008).

    Those might be a little less intimidating than all the vibrating/rotating/pulsating of the rabbit vibrators. Hope that helps!x

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