• Can anyone suggest a thuddy toy?

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    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm really hoping someone can help me on my quest for a new toy. I was originally after a non-leather, thuddy flogger but I'm open to other possibilities.

    I read lots of reviews for different floggers but they all seem to mention sting. I know all floggers will have a bit of sting but are there any available on lovehoney that come with a decent thud too? Ideally I'd like something my partner could really go to town on me with but as I'm not new to BDSM and tend to like more intense sensations, I'm guessing a beginners rope flogger won't satisfy me? (but if you tried one and found it packed more of a punch than you expected, please let me know).

    I'm open to other suggestion for impact toys. My favourite things are belts, fists, and a baton (mainly thud with a little sting) though I also use canes and a crop (more sting than thud). Hopefully someone with a similar pain preference reads and has some suggestions.

    So basically this is the kind of toy I'm looking for:

    -Must be veggie friendly

    -More thud than sting

    -Suitable for intermediate/advanced/heavy masochists

    -Ideally under £20 but if it's an amazing toy I'll save up

    -Something that is suitable for more than just the thighs and buttocks

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    Foxxy [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you tried silicone paddles? They're very thuddy! I have the Tantus ones, but sadly lovehoney don't stock those. I believe they do do a fetish fantasy one that has a texture to it though

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    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you! I've not tried any paddles and I also love silicone toys for hygeine reasons so it sounds like it could be a great addition to my toy box.

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    Foxxy wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31781

    This is an amazing hitty whacky thing! It's one of the best things in our toy box. I still want Tantus ones though, lol.

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    OUCH! Thank you ;) wrote:

    Foxxy wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31781

    This is an amazing hitty whacky thing! It's one of the best things in our toy box. I still want Tantus ones though, lol.

    I'd never have noticed this before. Wishlist I think :-) Awesome review Ouch

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    poppycat wrote:

    OUCH! Thank you ;) wrote:

    Foxxy wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31781

    This is an amazing hitty whacky thing! It's one of the best things in our toy box. I still want Tantus ones though, lol.

    I'd never have noticed this before. Wishlist I think :-) Awesome review Ouch

    Spanx

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    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Ouch. Silicone paddles seem to be getting the thumbs up all round. I've added it to my wishlist so hopefully it can be mine soon. I have to be sensible and buy my Christmas presents before buying any more toys. Being a responsible adult sucks :p

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    OUCH! Thank you ;) wrote:

    Foxxy wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31781

    This is an amazing hitty whacky thing! It's one of the best things in our toy box. I still want Tantus ones though, lol.

    another thumbs up for this, it's great

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    Hey Friday13

    If you're looking for 'thud' over 'sting' a paddle would definitely be the way to go. Just make sure you choose one which features a non-smooth/patent side to remove as much of the sting as you can from the spank. If you weren't looking for something veggie-friendly I would suggest suede as being the perfect material for you to look at. 

    These would be my recommendations :)

    Bondage Boutique Intermediate Round Faux Leather Paddle

    Fetish Fantasy Extreme Silicone Spanking Paddle

    Bettie Page Picture This Spanking Bat

    Bettie Page Picture Perfect Spanking Paddle

    Fetish Fantasy Singapore Stinger Paddle III (you could always pad out the spanking surface on this one to make it even thuddier)

    Have fun!

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    Don't discount the Lovehoney dual sided paddle. The padded side gives a thud rather than sting so you can really go to town.

    The rope floggers also give more of a thud than a sting which I prefer. Again you can really put some welly in which I find is easier to tolerate than the sharp sting of a dressage whip or cane.

    Hope this helps.

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    Kimberleyking [sign in to see picture]
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    something wooden i find wooden paddles are tuddy ...

    fetish fantasy singapore stinger looks good i cant add a link for some reason:(

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    kinkytaffs [sign in to see picture]
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    Try a length of 2x2 from your local diy store, that will give you a good thud

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    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
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    kinkytaffs wrote:

    Try a length of 2x2 from your local diy store, that will give you a good thud

    Hah! Not quite that much of a maso yet

    Thank you everyone! I have lots of things to consider now!

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    Thud comes from the density of the object, sting from its hardness, so something heavy and soft is all thud and something light and hard is all sting.

    Most of the faux leather i.e. plastic floggers therefore sting rather than thump.

    You could try

    Sex & Mischief Rope Flogger Whip

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17130

    but wet the flails first to add weight. If that worked you could try oiling them with a suitable oil instead which would give heavier and very smooth against skin flails.

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    ^I like how your mind works :)

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