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    slinky binky [sign in to see picture]
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    Okay so I'm avin a slight problem I can't seem to get any of my butt plugs 2 stay in. My variety includes 1 vibrating and 3 non-vibrating.
    Any tips

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    fantasia fairy [sign in to see picture]
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    I have this problem, i can get anal beads to stay in but not the plugs :( So any advice on this would be great! Will follow this thread like a a hawk!

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I use them loads and wear them all day with no problems of them ever making an unexpected appearance ! lol

    I find that the tapered ones, while easier to insert, dont stay put. These 2 are brilliant ...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25809

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31111

    The pink one is quite small.....but looks so pretty :)

    I use this one a lot during sex and solo play ...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28503

    I like a larger one during sex and play as it stays in better....even when I'm squirming around like mad.

    It is important to get a plug that fits. It needs to be comfortable but needs to be large enough that it takes a fair amount of effort to get it in and remove it. Train your body to relax during insertion and removal and you should be able to take a plug that will stay where its meant too xx

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with Terri about the more tapered ones. I also have the pink glass one, and it really is brilliant, and so beautiful:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31111

    I also have this vibrating one which is excellent, and also stays put really well :) xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22772

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    Mr & Mrs P [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi

    Am fairly new to anal play really and would really like to try a butt plug, what is the best one to try first ?

    Xx

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Mr & Mrs P wrote:

    Hi

    Am fairly new to anal play really and would really like to try a butt plug, what is the best one to try first ?

    Xx

    Here are a couple of LH guides which are really useful. Whatever you decide to buy, make sure you take it really slowly and don't rush yourself at all, and make sure you use plenty of anal lube too :) xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/buyers-guide/how-to-choose-butt-plug/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/buyers-guide/a-quick-and-easy-guide-to-anal-lubricants/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/buyers-guide/an-overview-of-anal-sex-toys/

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    Mr & Mrs P [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for that advice , I do you a vibe already but really would like to try a plug xx

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    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a butt plug beginner, and a few months back I bought a little rosebud plug. I love it so much, it looks and feels perfect., but it does sometimes pop out during sex or masturbation with a dildo/vibrator. So I got another plug that is similar, but a bit bigger. I was worried it would be uncomfortable, but it goes in as easily as my little one, and feels "safer". Unfortunately, I just can't seem to get anything in the front at the same time with the bigger plug in the back. Haven't tried during sex, but even my narrowest dildo is too tight a fit. Do I just need to keep trying? Will my body adjust over time?

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    It the silicone one's I can't keep in during normal wear.

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I can take ohs cock in the front while wearing a fairly large plug up my bum but I do struggle with vibrators ....think its because the vibes dont have hardly any flex or give in them.

    This is a reasonable size

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1738

    and is quite soft and squidgy, for want of a better word. I can get it in with this..

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28503

    but I struggle to get a much smaller but much firmer vibe in with it.

    You will stretch in time ....but be careful not to hurt yourself. Take things slowly...and listen to your body, dont rush and make sure you're really relaxed and everything is well lubed xx

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    Caliente [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ - Thanks for the information, it explains it. Even my silicone ones are firm, so I will just wait for the real thing to try it properly, then. :)

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    Caliente wrote:

    Terri JJ - Thanks for the information, it explains it. Even my silicone ones are firm, so I will just wait for the real thing t try it properly, then. :)

    Glad I could help xx

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    Lord love length [sign in to see picture]
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    I've been getting into anal more and more this year and found that too much lube is the main reason for them not staying in . Just a little ky seems to be the answer for me . Good luck . Xx

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    Lord love length wrote:

    I've been getting into anal more and more this year and found that too much lube is the main reason for them not staying in . Just a little ky seems to be the answer for me . Good luck . Xx

    Yep..agree with this if you're planning to wear one when you're out and about...but if its going to be played with alot and pushed in and out during play or sex I get a bit sore if I dont use plenty of lube.

    Trust me...once my big plug is in there it takes quite a bit to remove it...its never gonna slip out, no matter how much lube is used ;) lol

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    Lord love length [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh Hun ... Spot on .... If its like a piston then a bucket of lube is needed. ..... Xxxx

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    slinky binky [sign in to see picture]
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    Terri JJ Thank you for your advice as it is great. I'm going 2 get the vibrating one as I lurve my vibrations. The pink glass one is divine and I'm thinking it's needed aswell.

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    Key to getting it to stay put, get the largest you're comfy with, with the narrowest neck, a steep curve at the lower side helps too, so this is likely to stay put

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26278

    or this

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21069

    all too many beginner plugs aren't really the right shape but do give you an idea to how they feel so you can progress from there?

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    Kimberleyking [sign in to see picture]
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    ones that flare out at the bottom tend to anchore themselves in xx

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    Kimberleyking wrote:

    ones that flare out at the bottom tend to anchore themselves in xx

    I agree. I regularly use a Tantus Ryder silicone butt plug (unfortunately discontinued by LH) and the T-shape sits nicely between my ass cheeks, It does need a spot of lube every now and then when I'm wearing it for longer than an hour. So try one that has enough bulb to fill you, a tapered neck and a T-shape and you should be OK to roam free

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    staplegun [sign in to see picture]
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    use just enough lube to get it into place i struggled when i was a newbie to them that i put to much on so when i wanted to use mine out and about it never stayed in place . now though just wow i keep my ass plugged for several hours at a time with no problems :-)

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