whats your safe word?

Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

 At the moment mine seems to be "Get off my belly button!"

I hate my belly button being touched and when we are play fighting and he hurts me accidently, I tend to shout that out - Usually because he is touching my belly button! Lol! But also when he isn't and I'm hurting because it catches him off guard. He'll instantly respond with "I never touched your belly button!" and then the penny drops.

That's certainly unique!

MissCatty wrote:

safty word for me is "cuddles"

I love that! It's really cute and loving(: I think it sums up the whole idea/point of a safety word!

Thats lovely :)

Me and my partner dont really have a safty word. to be honest we dont really do anything we feel needs a safty word. if soemthing isn't right we just say.

@Snapper  I was literally going to post that when I saw this thread.  I saw the audio video for that a few weeks ago, and it's still a standing a joke between me and a friend of mine.

I am a massive animal lover (NOT like that) - poor gerbil!  But really funny all the same!  And the guy got a broken nose apparently!!  Hahahahaha,

Sorely tempted to shout it out during sex at some point just to get a laugh hahahaha

shit a tit

 bumps for abigail

Ours is "monkey"

 Need to get one sorted, specially since we are getting more ambitious

I've never needed one - however kinky the play has been (from "not-at-all" to "slightly") it's never involved anything that would confuse the communication with my partner. I try always to be sensitive to her needs and mood (as far as I can tell) and a "No", "Wait" or "Stop" always means Stop-right-the-hell-now-and-find-out-what's-the-matter.

Honestly, as fun and exotic as it might be to need a safe-word, it would be perfectly possible to enjoy a seriously kinky relationship without using one, so long as each of you knows you can trust your partner to listen carefully when you tell them things.

However, the minute your play starts to involve roleplay, D/s mindsets or any kind of scenario where you might say something for effect rather than information, I think a clearly-designated safeword or two becomes essential.

Maybe I need to think up some now, just in case...

 We just use the traffic light system, green for "everything's fine, keep going", yellow for "slow down/ease up, I'm nearing my limit" and red for "stop immediately". Easy to remember, we rarely need to use it though.

Ive never needed one as my OH is so aware of my body language so far I havent needed to use one.

But incase its been Hugs.

Blondii wrote:

Ive never needed one as my OH is so aware of my body language so far I havent needed to use one.

But incase its been Hugs.

This is such a great safe word as it's exactly what I reckon I'd need if I ever had to use ours

CCW x

With my last boyfriend my safe word was "Corona" ... Can't remember why I never had to use it though, with my husband our safe word is "Water" and if I'm gagged I hum "Mary Had a Little Lamb"

With my girlfriend it's fallofel. I'm not sure why, I think it was just the first out of context word that either of us thought of

We.... We don't have one O_o
Niftyb self analyzation time!!

...it this because we've not yet been kinky enough to NEED one? Am I not being adventurous enough?! This must be RECTIFIED!!

*skulks off to booby-trap bedroom for unsuspecting other half*

I should think, were I to chose a safe work, it would be something like "BANANA HAMMOCK!!" and for a bound-and-gagged option, I'd hum eye of the tiger.. :D