• Vibrator Use vs Manual

    1431102120
    sarahkitty [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 135
    • Joined: 25 Sep 2011

    Since I started using a vibrator a number of years ago, I've gone from using it now and again to most times I masturbate. For me, it is just better than my hand alone. Ladies, what % of the time do you use a toy vs not?

    1431102752
    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2120
    • Joined: 22 Apr 2014

    50/50 for me I think, although I tend to masturbate a couple of times a day so I might use a toy once then later on just use my hands. If I'm masturbating before bed I almost always use my hands, so I don't have to bother getting up and cleaning my toys!

    When I first started out with sex toys I used vibrators, but these days I prefer to use a glass dildo or something like that, and stimulate my clitoris manually. It seems to result in stronger orgasms :)

    1431102756
    JM88 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1212
    • Joined: 12 Nov 2014

    100% with a toy. Ive never been able to climax using just my hands!

    1431102838
    GeekyEleanor [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 350
    • Joined: 22 Nov 2014

    Depends how lazy I am. Sometimes I'm so lazy I can't bring myself to roll over the bed to reach the toy drawer. But it's a 50/50 for me.

    1431102864
    lindtchilli [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 104
    • Joined: 3 Jun 2013

    It generally takes me a lot of stimulation to actually get anywhere, to be honest, manually? Sometimes it can literally hurt my poor hand. I don't know if it's due to one of my (many) health issues, but I get a nasty pain in the tendons (I think) of my hand after a while.

    Also I find manual stimulation is more wearing on my clit - if you get sore before you manage to get off, you've kind of had it in terms of actually being able to orgasm!

    1431102918
    Never know [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1697
    • Joined: 29 Nov 2014

    GeekyEleanor wrote:

    Depends how lazy I am. Sometimes I'm so lazy I can't bring myself to roll over the bed to reach the toy drawer. But it's a 50/50 for me.

    Hehe - this for me too, or I can't be bothered to fiddle about with the combination lock on my toy case!

    1431110806
    mrs.hiskett [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 996
    • Joined: 12 Mar 2015

    Depends how excited i am. Sometimes a toy just dont do it :(

    1431111210
    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 3813
    • Joined: 17 Jul 2013

    Depends on my mood but probably about 50/50. I do find that if I use vibrating toys too often it leads to a bit of a loss of sensation of the clitoris and then I find it harder and harder to orgasm without the strongest of vibrations, so then I have to go back to my hand for a bit until the sensations pick up again.

    1431114560
    TickleMeTots [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 184
    • Joined: 7 Jun 2014

    I pretty mcuh always use my toys as they are just so much better and offer more than what my hand can. However, when I'm struggling to sleep but can't more because my partner is asleep, that's about the only time I'll use my hand, ahaa.

    1431117518
    strapon_banana [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 188
    • Joined: 1 Oct 2010

    Always the hitachi magic wand for me ! damn that toy has given a lot of orgasms over the years

    1431118853
    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 11626
    • Joined: 20 Aug 2014

    wildflower wrote:

    Depends on my mood but probably about 50/50. I do find that if I use vibrating toys too often it leads to a bit of a loss of sensation of the clitoris and then I find it harder and harder to orgasm without the strongest of vibrations, so then I have to go back to my hand for a bit until the sensations pick up again.

    +1 :)

    1434256114
    HoneyBear7 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 115
    • Joined: 8 Jun 2015

    100% Toy

    1434260546
    mrs.hiskett [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 996
    • Joined: 12 Mar 2015

    80 toys i cum quicker with them

    1434275853
    Ink and Kink [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2084
    • Joined: 21 Apr 2014

    Majority of the time, I don't get anywhere using my hand. So I have to use toys really..

    1434276826
    Deekayjay [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 269
    • Joined: 27 May 2015

    I don't get anywhere near with just my hand so always vibrator+++

    1434285564
    happyvibes [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 42
    • Joined: 26 Apr 2015

    I'd say about 50/50 - toys are quicker for me, but I like to keep my hand in too as it were! Don't want to get to the stage where I'm too dependent on the vibrations and find it more difficult to cum with someone else then.

    1434309185
    PetiteJess [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 267
    • Joined: 2 Mar 2010

    Majority of the time I use toys too, find the orgasms more powerful with them than with my hands.

    1434312552
    fizzy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2380
    • Joined: 31 Oct 2010

    I'm 50/50 as well if i want to come quickily ill use a vibe if i want a build up i'll use my hand. i also enoy useing a bullet vibe and my hand.

    1434316344
    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2205
    • Joined: 8 Nov 2010

    I need a toy, not necessarily a vibrator, even dildo would do in case of the Njoy Fun Wand, but not fingers. My main problem is I do not react strong enough to my own fingers. Not just on my clitoris, but generally on spots I love when my partner touches, I dont reach at all if I touch it with my own fingers.

    Not sure if I am weird, but I can come from my partners fingers playing with my clitors, but never my own fingers.

    1434317811
    Fun Louise [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 4820
    • Joined: 30 Mar 2015

    I'm going to hazard 80% toys with solo play. I find that most of the time I enjoy a combination of glass dildo with bullet on my clit, sometimes just rabbit toy of bullet alone, even dildo alone. If I masturbate manually it is usually after wearing my jiggle balls or lelo vibrating egg and I just need to come at this time so my hands do just fine.

    ironically my OH can make me come with his hands much faster than with toys.

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.