• Difficulty finding the right dildo.

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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    So, i'm having quite the issue finding a suitable dildo for simulation of actual sex. Due to a lifelong fear of sexual acts etc, i'm still quite new to masturbation, but to really reassure myself that i won't lose bladder control during sex, i'm looking for a dildo to simulate actual thrusting as would occur during sex. So far all my purchases are unsuitable. Glass is too rigid, and now i know the jelly rubber is unhygenic i've thrown those away, but they were too girthy for me to use anyway. I have been considering this as the best candidate http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28715 but i'm still al ittle concerned. I dislike the nubs on the pink tracey cox dildo, and i'm not sure if the veins will feel uncomfortable too. Also, i do own a silicone g spot vibe, but i've enver managed to actually insert it as i find the silicone very "grippy" and not easy to insert, but then again it is not a tapered end so i'm not sure again if this would be an issue. I have seen the 5 inch one also on the tester list, but 5 inches i've found to be a bit "short" and i'm not sure if it would also be a bit too slim to be realistic.

    There is also one other issue with the one i've linked to, a discrepancy between the listed info and the video info. video states its 4.5 inch insertable, the item description 5.5 inches. 4.5 would again be too short, and was wondering if anyone who actually owned it could state if it is indeed 4.5 or 5.5 insertable? The next "size up" so to speak would be the colours 6 inch one, but the added .5 inch girth would likely be too big.

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    VirginAngel wrote:

    So, i'm having quite the issue finding a suitable dildo for simulation of actual sex. Due to a lifelong fear of sexual acts etc, i'm still quite new to masturbation, but to really reassure myself that i won't lose bladder control during sex, i'm looking for a dildo to simulate actual thrusting as would occur during sex. So far all my purchases are unsuitable. Glass is too rigid, and now i know the jelly rubber is unhygenic i've thrown those away, but they were too girthy for me to use anyway. I have been considering this as the best candidate http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28715 but i'm still al ittle concerned. I dislike the nubs on the pink tracey cox dildo, and i'm not sure if the veins will feel uncomfortable too. Also, i do own a silicone g spot vibe, but i've enver managed to actually insert it as i find the silicone very "grippy" and not easy to insert, but then again it is not a tapered end so i'm not sure again if this would be an issue. I have seen the 5 inch one also on the tester list, but 5 inches i've found to be a bit "short" and i'm not sure if it would also be a bit too slim to be realistic.

    There is also one other issue with the one i've linked to, a discrepancy between the listed info and the video info. video states its 4.5 inch insertable, the item description 5.5 inches. 4.5 would again be too short, and was wondering if anyone who actually owned it could state if it is indeed 4.5 or 5.5 insertable? The next "size up" so to speak would be the colours 6 inch one, but the added .5 inch girth would likely be too big.

    Have you looked at the Stronic range? The Eins and Drei are both really good. They're vibrators; but they don't vibrate they thrust (Honestly they're the best thrusting vibes I've ever owned) They have a lot of settings that are supposed to imitate sex with a male.

    They're a bit pricy though.

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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't actually likei nternal vibrations, by thrusting i meant as in holding and suing to simulate what the man would do naturally, but i appreciate the reply, think i'd be saving til this time next year for something that pricey though :p

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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    It also has t obe waterproof, i dont exactly have a bedroom and am "blessed" wit ha very nosey father, so bath/shower time is my only oppertunity really.

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    I've got this one and the material feels pretty realistic:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6371

    There are various other ones made of the same UR3 material if you want something smaller. The vac-u-lock range has a handle you can buy if you want something to hold it with or you can get one with a sucker on the bottom.

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    The one you linked to is 5.5" total length 4.5" insertable it's a great dildo but a little on the slim side

    if you want things to be as realistic as possible try flesh feel this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27176 says it's 6" insertable 4.5" girth

    this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32460 says it's is 6.3" insertable 5" girth

    with flesh feel you have powder them after to keep them in good condition

    for non flesh feel i do have http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30879 it's 5" insertable 5" girth for me personally i don't need much of a warm up to manage the girth

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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    I've tried a 4.75, was too girthy, think the one i linked to is probably the best going, and then try to work up to the colours 6 inch one, thanks everyone :)

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    oneofthesedays [sign in to see picture]
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    Dual density silicone toys tend to feel pretty realistic, and because they're quite squishy the girth is usually less of an issue.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28882

    This one has a circumference of 3.5 inches so might be easier for you? They're quite expensive though :/

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    Can't help with any recommendations as such. But just thought I would mention that I have the larger version of the one you linked and the veins definitely don't feel at all like the nubs on the pink Tracy Cox as I have that one too. So I would say it's a good one to try.

    I reckon the one you've linked to could be a really good choice x

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    Personally speaking i find the realistic dildos tend to be exagerrated. I have the 5.5 inch pink one, and it has a "swollen head" and large veins. Now i must say that during vaginal sex i have never felt any veins on my husband, and the head of the penis is nowhere near as rigid and pronounced as the dildo!

    I think dildos tend to exaggerate features to add textures. The truth is during sex you will add quite a bit of lube (especially the first time!) that it will most likely feel like a smooth cylinder sliding about. Also an erect penis can sometimes still be a bit squishy so even if the solid silicone feels like it has no give then that doesnt mean a penis will be the same.

    As for the urinating problem, have you ever felt discomfort like it with a dildo? Ive found during sex that occasionaloy i feel like i need a wee, but its the same feeling as if you need one any other time and you know you can hold it until you go to the toilet. Ive found that certain positions can affect that, but generally if theres no pressure on the bladder then it doesnt happen.

    That being said i hope you find a dildo you can manage and one that fits your needs!

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