• Help! Silicone G-spot dildo..

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello! I lurk on the forums a lot but this is my first thread for quite a while, just looking for some G-spot advice

    I'm not a fan of realistic or overly phallic dildos, so I recently purchased the Lovehoney Satisfy Me G-spot Silicone Dildo: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769

    I've had it for a few days now and not been impressed with it so far. Before buying it I read loads of the reviews, which are mostly really positive, and a lot of women were saying they had incredible G-spot orgasms with this and even learnt how to squirt. It doesn't matter how far in I insert this, or how much I angle it towards my stomach, I can't seem to achieve G-spot stimulation at all. I've tried shallow, medium and deep penetration with it.

    When I've used my hands I've been able to feel the ridged area that is supposedly my G-spot, but when I massage it I kind of just feel pressure rather than pleasure. Am I some kind of freak of nature? Am I doing something wrong? It only feels pleasurable if I apply clitoral stimulation at the same time, but then I end up just having a clitoral orgasm instead.

    I'm wondering if there are any other toys out there which might help me experience a G-spot orgasm? I've been lusting after glass toys for a while now so I'm contemplating sending this back and buying one of those in the sale, as they're more rigid so they might be easier to massage my G-spot with. Any recommendations?

    Am I just a weirdo who's destined to never experience this elusive G-spot orgasm or squirting? Don't get me wrong, my clitoral orgasms can be incredible, but I'm looking to take it up a notch!

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    Firstly, stop calling yourself a weirdo! Everyone is different, and if you put too much pressure on yourself you're gonna make it much harder.

    I'm in a similar boat to you, and am still trying to learn more about G-spot stimulation.

    I got this book which I'm currently reading, and it's quite informative:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24873

    It's apparently discontinued on here, but maybe you could get it somewhere else?

    I find glass really pleasurable on my G-spot, and have this:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30941

    The curved end feels amazing!

    I guess the key is just to keep experimenting, educate yourself, and above all- relax! That's what I'm trying to do anyway. Good luck!

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Haha I will try! I never felt abnormal before until I came on here and now I feel like the odd one out!

    I will check out that book, thanks very much for your advice I've never used glass before and I can see that the double ended glass dildo is in the sale, so I might invest in that and send this one back.

    I've never had to return a LH item before, it's quite sad

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    GlamRockChick [sign in to see picture]
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    I found it took ages to get 'into' g-spot toys. But now a bit of stimulation there is amazing. Please don't think you're a weirdo because something doesn't work for you. The first few times I needed a rabbit to really get going, it seemed like after I'd done it once, it was easier!
    Relax and enjoy experimenting!

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    You are not a weirdo. Far from it and you're not alone in your mission.

    This is probably not going to help much but I think the g spot has a lot in common with finding Mr right. You find it when you are lest expecting it.

    The first time I experienced a g spot orgasm I was really not expecting it . I was straddling my OH having sex whilst he was sitting in the floor with a bean bag propping him up. I was grinding really hard in to him and it just happened. I didn't quite know what was happening I just knew it felt good so I carried on. Different positions work for different people as does different toys.

    Ive just purchased the Tracy Cox g spot vibrator and I'm fi guru g out how it works for me.

    If it happens it happens. I know it must be difficult but try not to look for it too hard because it helps to be relaxed I've found.

    Good luck and more importantly enjoy yourself and be happy.

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    I'm in exactly the same situation as you boogaloo and understand your frustration. You're not alone, hopefully with some more practise we'll get there!

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks guys!

    I'm wondering if a g spot vibrator might be better than a g spot dildo or massager, what do you guys think?

    When I'm having sex with my OH I can definitely feel good g-spot stimulation, depending on the position, I just cant seem to get any joy out of trying myself.

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    Agreed with all above! Not at all a wierdo!

    I really like my glass dildo but its small and simple I would not know if it would help to stimulate your g spot.

    I have a vibrator with a slightly angle at the tip and that is heavenly, at least for me!

    Like this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26151

    I have tried some in the past and this might be some good options:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13228

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29562

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12083

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    Boogaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Jennylafay wrote:

    Agreed with all above! Not at all a wierdo!

    I really like my glass dildo but its small and simple I would not know if it would help to stimulate your g spot.

    I have a vibrator with a slightly angle at the tip and that is heavenly, at least for me!

    Like this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26151

    I have tried some in the past and this might be some good options:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13228

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29562

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12083

    Thanks for the reccomendations :) The 1st Doc Johnson one looks pretty good, I might think about that when I have more money. It's a shame the Tracey Cox rechargable G-spot vibe is out of stock because it was on sale for just £10!

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    Boogaloo wrote:

    Thanks for the reccomendations :) The 1st Doc Johnson one looks pretty good, I might think about that when I have more money. It's a shame the Tracey Cox rechargable G-spot vibe is out of stock because it was on sale for just £10!

    An absolutely wonderful person has just gifted me the Tracey Cox rechargeable G-spot vibrator that I so desperately wanted - I can't believe it! What a lovely coincidence!

    Please please tell me who you are, I have a sneaking suspicion but I really want to know!

    Thank you so much xxxx

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    Boogaloo wrote:

    Hello! I lurk on the forums a lot but this is my first thread for quite a while, just looking for some G-spot advice

    I'm not a fan of realistic or overly phallic dildos, so I recently purchased the Lovehoney Satisfy Me G-spot Silicone Dildo: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769

    I've had it for a few days now and not been impressed with it so far. Before buying it I read loads of the reviews, which are mostly really positive, and a lot of women were saying they had incredible G-spot orgasms with this and even learnt how to squirt. It doesn't matter how far in I insert this, or how much I angle it towards my stomach, I can't seem to achieve G-spot stimulation at all. I've tried shallow, medium and deep penetration with it.

    When I've used my hands I've been able to feel the ridged area that is supposedly my G-spot, but when I massage it I kind of just feel pressure rather than pleasure. Am I some kind of freak of nature? Am I doing something wrong? It only feels pleasurable if I apply clitoral stimulation at the same time, but then I end up just having a clitoral orgasm instead.

    I'm wondering if there are any other toys out there which might help me experience a G-spot orgasm? I've been lusting after glass toys for a while now so I'm contemplating sending this back and buying one of those in the sale, as they're more rigid so they might be easier to massage my G-spot with. Any recommendations?

    Am I just a weirdo who's destined to never experience this elusive G-spot orgasm or squirting? Don't get me wrong, my clitoral orgasms can be incredible, but I'm looking to take it up a notch!

    I to have yet to find my G-Spot. I even looked behind the sofa, however my initial dissapointment turned to joy when I found 50p and bought a Crunchie from Mr Patels.

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