• All Day Butt Plug

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    Bodger [sign in to see picture]
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    Can anybody please suggest a butt plug that can be worn during the day for a novice. My partner loves toys in her bum and would like to try a plug to work. We do not own any. JBx

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    Not trying to sound preachy, but if she doesn't even own a plug she definitely shouldn't be trying to wear one all day as soon as she gets one. It's something she will really have to build up to, not to mention she'll need to have bathroom breaks every half hour at least (depending on her body) to re apply lube etc. Lots of practising wearing it around the house before going all day at work.

    As for what plug, I mean what toys has she tried?

    Good things to look for in a plug for longer term wear...a 'lollipop' shape (ie bulbous head and thin neck), a t-bar base as some people find round bases can chafe, light weight (ie not a steel rosebud lol)...I don't really know, the rest depends on what she has tried/what exactly she wants out of it. I personally find glass or aluminium plugs more comfortable as they don't feel like they dry out as much as silicone or other ones do (though you should still keep it nice and lubed up).

    This is the most comfortable plug I own:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30819

    I know it says 'large' but honestly, I wouldn't trust the base size on the small version. Not if you intend to wear it for long periods. You don't want it to 'travel'.

    This one is also very comfortable as the base flexes nicely and you barely feel it is there, important if you're sitting down/shifting in your seat etc:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21767

    This one is a comfortable example of a t-bar base, again you barely feel it between your cheeks but obvioudly you still feel the plug inside you:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665

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    sleepycelia [sign in to see picture]
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    Can't link because I'm on my phone, but the Doc Johnson Mood Naughty (long name!) are very comfortable - the t-bar base sits right between the cheeks, they're super comfortable, the silicone's smooth and the sizes are on the smaller side. The base is a bit long though and can block access to the vagina, just an fyi. 

    The only issue with long-term wear is that if you're using a water-based lube the lube can get gradually absorbed and you might need to reapply; using an oil-based lube like coconut oil or Yes oil-based can help alleviate this as it's quite slippy.

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    Jokerboy [sign in to see picture]
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    dont know how to add links did it before but the love honey booty buddy silicone butt plug that lovebirds_x recommended i second that or look at beginners butt plugs for alternatives and consider the material to the right lube for all day wear

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    Oops, forgot to add - if you choose to use an oil-based lube, make sure you only use it with silicone/metal/wood/glass/ceramic toys and not rubber or jelly or latex; apparently this can speed up degradation of the toy, much like oil does to latex condoms.

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    Bodger [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the advice so far. We have played with beads, 3teez wand attachment and small vibrators for anal play just never had a butt plug so we will look at the items you have suggested. Thanks x

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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32147 I would recommend this one
    as its really comfortable to wear.

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    Lollipop ;) wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32147 I would recommend this one
    as its really comfortable to wear.

    Lollipop, we take that you have used this model. Its a low price one, might try this myself. Have a good evening.
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    Does anyone have any tips for wearing a plug long term, as I find it uncomfortable to sit down with one in, walking around and everything else is fine just sitting down is sightly uncomfortable.

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    Twincats yes I have hun,

    yes its a great price especially as its now in the sale and is made from silicone. I really couldn't recommend it highly enough, its really comfortable and the juggling ball is a nice reminder that your wearing it as it adds to the sensation.

    I like wearing mine during sex as you can feel the ball moving about.

    I like it so much I'm planning on buying the medium and large while they are in the sale. :)

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    Lollipop ;) wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32147 I would recommend this one
    as its really comfortable to wear.

    Right. In the basket it goes! Thanks Lollipop!

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    Lol your welcome never know :) let me know what you think hun! X

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    twincats [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you lollipop, have ordered your recommendation. Will let you know how it goes.

    You should be a sales person for LH

    Thanks and take care x

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    Your welcome twincats :) you take care too hun. X

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    Will do, got some lovely bits in the sale, can't wait to receive them and put them to the test!

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    I think http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28439 would be a very good choice for long time use. I've had one similarly shaped before and it really makes a big difference to the straight, pointy ones, especially when sitting down. I'm pretty sure the vibe is easily removed. I don't know if you want a smaller one though.

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    twincats [sign in to see picture]
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    Tussilago wrote:

    I think http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28439 would be a very good choice for long time use. I've had one similarly shaped before and it really makes a big difference to the straight, pointy ones, especially when sitting down. I'm pretty sure the vibe is easily removed. I don't know if you want a smaller one though.

    Hi Tussilago Looks very nice, it seems to be a good job none once used. A bit out of my price range. Have a good day Tussilago. X
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    Tussilago wrote:

    I think http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28439 would be a very good choice for long time use. I've had one similarly shaped before and it really makes a big difference to the straight, pointy ones, especially when sitting down. I'm pretty sure the vibe is easily removed. I don't know if you want a smaller one though.

    If she has never used a butt plug before this one could seem quite big. I have it and have yet to progress to it.

    AS already recommended I started with this, very easy and comfortable to wear.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665

    I have also wore this one for the best part of a day and it was great fun and really comfortable

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26278

    x

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    LadyS wrote:

    Tussilago wrote:

    I think http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28439 would be a very good choice for long time use. I've had one similarly shaped before and it really makes a big difference to the straight, pointy ones, especially when sitting down. I'm pretty sure the vibe is easily removed. I don't know if you want a smaller one though.

    If she has never used a butt plug before this one could seem quite big. I have it and have yet to progress to it.

    AS already recommended I started with this, very easy and comfortable to wear.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16665

    I have also wore this one for the best part of a day and it was great fun and really comfortable

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26278

    x

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    Thanks LadyS, weare having a look at your suggestions and will take the 'plunge' soon. xx

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