• Strokers, fleshlights, masturbators, etc...

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    menyanthe [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok... I am thinking of surprising him with something of the sort. Although, I did read some older topics, I got a little confused. It would be his first toy ever, so it is difficult to know what he would enjoy more...

    Are there toys that do not require powder to keep them in good condition? Except for size/material, is there anything else I should pay attention to?

    At first, I was inclined to give around 20-30 pounds, but he is very special to me, so, if it is worth it, I might go in the higher range and give around 50. So I would appreciate any opinions on this topic. Especially, coming from the guys here, as they would best know how it feels. :)

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    You could always try something like the tenga eggs - they're disposable but last a few uses if cleaned and stored well. You could try a couple of different textures ones & then get a feel for what he likes.

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    menyanthe [sign in to see picture]
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    Aren't tenga eggs too small?

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    personally any of those are not for me , never seen the point tbh , but good luck experimenting

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    BDSM-curious [sign in to see picture]
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    If it helps, I've treated somebody to a stroker, fleshlight and a fliphole. He likes the fliphole the most of the three.

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    menyanthe [sign in to see picture]
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    kinkyman, what do you like then? Or you do not use toys at all?

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    i use toys just not on my cock . don't see the attraction when you've got your right or left hand or even better someone elses hand ....as long as they don't try and pull the head off it ...ouch lol

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    The fliphole is a bit pricey right now, I wish I could have used my oh points to reduce the price, lol...

    But I may consider it for later...

    kinkyman, that's the main problem - he said it is difficult for him to cum from hand/oral stimulation alone, and I am not always around, so I just wanted to see if toys might help...

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    Okay, I am currently looking at the 3 for 75 and these look interesting:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31060

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19123

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22882

    Problem is, I won't have enough money until next week and it is a bit too pricey for me at the moment, but still - if it is worth it, I might consider it anyway...

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    Hi I have just used a cock ring for the first time. It was brilliant. The pleasure you both get. Lovely. Have fun.: -)

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    Foxxy [sign in to see picture]
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    Too small? They're really really stretchy ... My OH has several masturbators, including the fliphole, but he prefers the eggs. They were the first thing I got him, because they weren't too intimidating

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    menyanthe wrote:

    Okay, I am currently looking at the 3 for 75 and these look interesting:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31060

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19123

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22882

    Problem is, I won't have enough money until next week and it is a bit too pricey for me at the moment, but still - if it is worth it, I might consider it anyway...

    That's a great choice, good variety :)

    Fleshlights are our favourite by far, and getting the mini one in that deal is a great way to get one. Plus the Tenga 3D are the only toys we have tried that don't need powder (although I don't think the o force needs it either?) so that fits your needs, though that one is way more stimulating (it actually overstimulates my partner) so maybe warn him of that. You'll need powder for the fleshlight, though!

    If you have the money that is honestly a great deal, means you don't run the risk of putting him off toys altogether with cheaper, not so great ones that might not do the job :)

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    I wish I could just buy everything...

    So in short:

    1. Tenga eggs (noticed I can buy 2 for 15)

    2. Fliphole;

    3. The 3 different ones from the 3 for 75 offer. (although one of them will still need powder)

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    There's too much choice isn't there lol :-)

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    menyanthe wrote:

    Are there toys that do not require powder to keep them in good condition?

    Just wondering, why is this a factor?

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    I don't know - I have never used powder for my toys, also it is another thing I have to buy, I am not sure how long it will last.... The whole thing looks a bit cumbersome to me. Also, I am worried that a material that needs powder for maintenance is not the best one for sex toys in general...

    Also, doesn't the powder stick to the penis as well? I am just not too comfortable with that, I guess.

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    The powder used is just cornstarch/cornflour. All this does is take care of the slight amount of moisture left after cleaning and prevents mould. 

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2008/02/23/look-after-clean-fleshlight-sex-toy/

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    I am now considering the flip holes, but I wonder which one should I go for? Anyone tried different ones?

    P.S. Wow! I just received money in my card earlier than expected, which is a great surprise! I may be able to buy it today or tomorrow - as soon as I figure out which one I am buying...  Hopefully, he will enjoy it! :D

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    We have A LOT vibrating ones a bit crap for us but are something different, we have the tenga 3d which OH loved for a while but prefers his fleshlights, we have jenna haze mouth and vaginas but they're expensive. I'd recomend the black flip hole, it'll be my next purchase for OH and I know it'll be the best. Eggs are ok but won't blow anyone mind, they're good for taking on holiday

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    Aso eggs are only temporary, you have to throw them away after a few uses

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